While dating a guy, but not being their girlfriend, does the guy and girl usually respect each other if they sleep together before they establish the bf/gf status? What's the norm, and how long should you wait, or should you wait until you're bf/gf?
2007-08-14 17:18:08 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is something you both have to agree to
2007-08-14 17:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adults I know are bf/gf first and date for about a month (about once a week for a month). Yes they would respect each other if they really care for each other prior to sex. After sex the relationship is usually exclusive. If not, make sure you practice safe sex. There are too many STD's that are not obvious until it is too late. By then, forget respect, you'll have regret.
2007-08-14 17:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by askerwatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature people respect each other, no matter when they agree to have sex.
I would say give it 14 hours or so of face time, which could take anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months, before having sex. That's enough time that any obvious problems should start to appear, but not so long that the guy will start wondering if it will ever happen.
2007-08-14 17:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 year
2007-08-14 17:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by frank 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long should you wait to have sex afer going out with someone? well that's easy, have sex if you know you're in love. Don't just have sex with her because you want sex. Also falling in love takes a while, not just like a month it takes at least 6 months.
2016-05-18 01:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a different answer for every couple.
If you think he's the kind of guy who would judge you badly for having casual sex, even if it's with him, then you should wait. You might also want to reconsider EVER having sex with him, if he's that judgmental.
Try talking about a friend you know whose bf dumped her because she was too casual about sex. See what he says about it. Keep in mind he may say what he thinks will get you into the sack, rather than the truth.
2007-08-14 17:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex messes up everything. It confuses the relationship. Nowdays its like a kiss. Everyone have sex like no big deal. But when some thing goes wrong in relationship, you will get hurt like you wont believe. Sex is not important in relationship. Do not be fooled by the majority or friends around you. Its like same thing with Drug, or smoking.....everyone does it, and suddenly consider cool or hip or else.......really a infested society. You must realize that first...............and if you are OK with it, I think you are old enough to be able to take FULL responsible for your own action. No one can decide or do it for you. You do not want us to either.
2007-08-14 17:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about until marriage ? That would certainly establish a relationship. Be the way the norm seems to be ram pit immorality. But my guess is that you are young and beautiful, and have the chance to be better than just the norm.
best wishes!
2007-08-14 17:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by cynthia k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From personal experience, you do not build respect by sleeping with someone. In your case, how can you expect someone to respect you if you're not even exclusive or the girlfriend. You would do better to not have sex until you know yourself better.
2007-08-14 17:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's not set time. Sometimes you may want to wait, especially if you can't tell if the guy is going to be a jerk. Other times you may want to jump right into bed. From my experience, though, it seems best to get to know the guy before jumping into bed. The sex will be better when you know you can trust them and feel at ease with him.
2007-08-14 17:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer. The only thing you want to make sure of is that both of you are checked out by aadoctor first so you don't get or pass on an VD. If he says trust me I'm clean, then tell him to check his johnson into another hotel. Better safe than sorry.
2007-08-14 17:28:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋