Can you help?

Question

I hate myself i always feel like i am fat i am made fun of ever sinse 3rd grade and i feel ugly and i sometimes i wish i was never born. and i sometimes cry myself to sleep

and i look nothing like my avatar

and i never fell like going out cuz when i never wanna go out cuz i know that people will think that look at her a ugly girl who would ever wanna b friends with her

Answer 1

Honey you may want to talk to somebody for real, like a counselor. Sounds like you have very low selfasteem and please talk to some one face to face. OK

Answer 2

no matter what you look like right now- strip yourself naked, and go stand in front of the mirror. look at yourself and smile. You have two choices. to go on with your life and and be happy- you control your mind and thoughts. not the other way around. or sit there and cry. what makes you feel better? which of those two people i described above will do good for themselves in life? think about that long and hard. You were not born with a disease that leaves you helpless in bed, never to walk on your own, where you have to depend on someone else for EVERYTHING (including wiping your own butt) You were not born in a country where you have to pray to a certain god or wear only black, long robes. You are in AMERICA, where even fat people are happy. You need to find out the real reason you are unhappy- I know several fat kids- they are just fine with themselves. you are not comfortable being YOU yet. This is normal, and recognize that this will pass. When you are ready for it too. All you have to do is tell yourself you are ready, and belive it. Tell yourself what you want in life instead of thinking about what you don't want. surround yourself with happy people. don't just sit and stew in your problems. bad thoughts make more bad thoughts. good thought make good thoughts. email me if you want (or im)

Answer 3

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it. Only you can change you. If you are fat only you can lose the weight. Make a decision to take action and do something about it rather than complain. You will feel a lot better about yourself, you will have more self-esteem and self-respect. Take action!! Begin by learning how to eat properly. Getting outside and do some exercise. You can start by jogging around the block. Remember you have to begin to take responsibility for yourself. No one else is going to do it for you. It up to you now.

Answer 4

I'm sorry you're feeling so awful right now. It's so hard to be a teenager.

I'm here to tell you that it DOES get better. It's not easy to get through these difficult teen years, but you WILL make it.

Make sure to get involved with a church youth group. It is important that you develop a good relationship with Jesus AND it is important for you to have a positive peer group, as well. A fun, active church youth group can provide that for you.

Hang in there,
~M~

Answer 5

there are many fat people all around the world,but many of them live very happy.So the physique is not important.The most important thing is you are happy and healthy.