I was just wondering if this was a good idea? And for those of you who have done this pro's and con's? I don't think it would be a bad idea.
2007-08-14 14:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by erkie_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
it's a gret idea, and lots of fun
2007-08-14 16:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by rxing 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Several of my friends have had their parties together and a few have had several parties separately. In my experience and from talking to friends. It totally depends on each person.
If they want to have a freedom and want a wild night out, then it's probably best if there was NOT a combined party. It's likely that the couple may become jealous and have issues with the woman or man 'living it up' their last chance being single.
If they are really secure and have good trust then there would be no problem having a party together or separate. If they couple would like to go out together or just have a small gathering of friends it may be more benefical to go out together.
One of my friends got a keg, some pizza, some adult movies, and had their combined party on a friday and saturday night...yep that's right it was a weekend long party at a cabin. They played hide and go seek at like midnight in the words. You can imagine the screaming that was happening when the person would jump behind each other and scream boo!
However, I've been to one party where they went to a strip club and the woman was not happy she had to spend half of her night sitting there watching a bunch of woman strut their stuff. The man was happy, woman not...maybe they would have been happy if they had two parties instead of one.
2007-08-14 14:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Susie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would be a good idea. The whole point of a bachlor/bachlorette party is to have one last night of being 'single'- figuratively speaking, of course. One last opportunity to be unattached and have fun. Of course that doesn't mean you'll act as if you're single and go off with other men/women but those parties aren't meant to be had together. The whole idea is that they are separate. I would stick to tradition on this one if I were you, or skip the whole idea altogether. I get the feeling that once you combined the parties the idea and what you see happen might make you uncomfortable. Separate or skip!
2007-08-14 14:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by sahariah 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think it depends on what kind of bachelor and bachelorette party you are talking about.
If you are not the wild and crazy party type of people, then it would probably be fine. If you are on the crazy side, maybe not a good idea.
Friends of mine had separate parties but we all met up and then continued the party back at the grooms apartment. It was really fun, but then again we were only out playing pool and drinking not at strip clubs or anything.
2007-08-14 14:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Reba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have decided we are going a combined Bachelor/Bachlorette party. Neither one of us feel the need to go out and "party" like that if we are getting married.
We totally love each other. So we are having a fun themed together party and not going it alone.
2007-08-14 14:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Karena C 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea. First off i think just because it's your last night doesn't mean the guy needs to F- around or the girl has to walk around asking men to kiss her. I don't like tacky things like that. How can you not have fun with the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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If you don't want to party like that...I would go to the spa and have a bachelorette party like that. just a day of relaxing and chit chatting with the girls..Now that's a good time
2007-08-14 14:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its a great modern idea..but only if he's up for the idea...don't make it about trust..make it about the two of you and trying to make nice with both sides of the wedding parties..I wish my fiance would go for it but he'd rather hang out with his dudes at a strip club all night..he would be against it..but if you're guy is willing and able...do it!
2007-08-14 14:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 08:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think having them together would be less fun. The point of the parties is for the bride to spend time with her girlfriends and the groom to spend time with his guy friends. It doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
2007-08-14 14:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is what we are doning. Boys and girls are all going out for dinner together, then we'll go our seperate ways for a bit and then catch up for final drinks.
2007-08-14 15:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by Evening 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, just make sure the Bachelor and Bachelorette involved aren't the ones getting married to each other.
2007-08-14 14:11:28 · answer #11 · answered by bobdahead 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋