Why dont girls flirt with me? Many people say I'm good looking and a nice guy.?

Answer 1

If what you say is true, girls are flirting with you. One possibility is that you are looking for blatant stuff, like a girl grabbing your arm or saying outright that she thinks your cute or that she wants to go on a date with you. Flirting takes on many guises depending on the person. If you look for specific things you will always get confused because everybody flirts a little bit differently. Instead, pay attention to how you feel when you're around her. Do you feel that warm, electric feeling? Or do you feel awkward, not knowing what to say? Do you feel dissappointed when you finish a conversation with the girl? These indicators are soooo much more reliable than trying to consciously look for things.
Does a girl like you? It's kind of like does God exist. You just feel it. You can't prove it mathematically.
Another possibility is that girls flirt with you, just not the ones you want to flirt with you. There isn't much you can do about this. Not everyone's going to like you. This is true for everyone walking the planet. Attraction is a complicated thing, based on many factors such as age, height, wether you remind the person of somebody like their father or something, does she like bikers or computer nerds, timing etc. What's good looking to one person is ugly to another. It's amazing sometimes the people who will be drawn to me and I really don't thing I did anything in particular to attract them.

Answer 2

Well if I smile at a guy and just laugh I guess thats just being nice. But sometimes people notice if I'm talking to the guy I like I blink my eyes alotissh and smile or say flirty stuff. If your just being nice its normal stuff like laughing at your jokes err something. Hope that kinda helped just kinda hard to explain(: -KayyArr;*

Answer 3

I think you have to put out a vibe for girls to feel "safe" in flirting with you. If you are not flirty at all you should try being flirty first. Odds are they will start flirting back.

Answer 4

You most likely have many secret admirers.
Lotta girls probably have lots of crushes on you and girls are probably making rules like they're not allow to talk to you without another girl next to you or they're not allow to flirt with you.

Answer 5

You have to go to a social environment where it's ok for girls to flirt with guys; otherwise they won't say anything, ever.

I can't think of anywhere, though. Bars? Sewing competitions? Cooking classes? Orgies?

Answer 6

If you are really good looking like people say, girls are probably intimidated by you. They might b afraid of rejection. I kno that if i saw a hot guy who i liked hangin out somewheres i would NOT go up and just start flirting.. i would maybe say something stupid like... do u go to my high school? or soemthing dum like that haha. [small talk to kick up a convo] So i would NOT worry about it. If you like someone or want to flirt with someone... go up to them! b/c they'll b thrilled! and give them a compliment or just start small talk. =] Good luck!

p.s... thank you for the great advice about the long distance relationship =] ... you really helped me out =].. THANKS!

Answer 7

Maybe it's because you don't give anything for them to "work with" beyond your appearance. For example, this question...it definitely needs to be more detailed and have something more in order to get a good and or thoughtful response at all.

Answer 8

Why don't you flirt with them 1st?

Answer 9

well.. are you shy? if soo girls wont be toooo atracted to you, just put yourself out there, make ppl notice you are available.