PAGANS, WICCANS, or VOODOO FOLLOWERS???

Question

ARE THERE ANY REALLY SIMPLE EFFECTIVE SPELLS FOR BEAUTY, GAINING RESPECT, OR CONFIDENCE? I KNOW IT MAY SOUND SOMEWHAT STUPID TO ASK FOR THESE TYPE OF SPELLS, BUT THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME, SO COULD YOU PLEASE HELP ME? THANK YOU SO MUCH IF YOU CAN!

I AM A KIND PERSON, I AM ALWAYS NICE TO EVERYONE I MEET, BUT SOMETIMES THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO JUST DON'T WANT TO DO YOU RIGHT AND ITS LIKE THERE'S NOTHING ELSE TO DO, ITS ALMOST LIKE BEING BULLIED.

WHEN I SAY CONFIDENCE I AM MEANING IS THERE ANYTHING TO HELP ME STOP BEING SO SHY, CAUSE IM SURE THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE CONFUSE SHY WITH SNOBISH OR STUCK-UP

Answer 1

Well, as a Wiccan I really cannot speak for other Pagans OR for those who follow the various Voodoo paths.

1st there are no silly questions - just badly formed answers. I hope mine are not.

For me - personally - affirmations can be simple spells. Because beauty comes from within.

I teach my daughter to change what she can change, accept what she can't change and be smart enough to know the difference.

You can ONLY change yourself and how you respond to others negatively (AFAIC Their negatively is their problem not mine)

If you think positively and present yourself with confidence, you can make a difference. Believe me I'm STILL shy - although people can't believe it because I've developed a public persona with confidence.

At the very least I find that (carefully thought) hum our is a great ice breaker, conversation starter.

Hope that helps.

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Answer 2

Do you mean, the whole concept of being a Wiccan, witch and/or pagan? I'll try. First off, I'd just like to say that everyone has a different view of what they believe and how they go about it, so my opinions are just opinions and may not hold true for other pagans. I classify myself as an eclectic pagan. I'm not a Wiccan and I don't see myself as a witch. I worship several nature deities and believe very strongly in the concept of balance. As such, my beliefs are not about the classic struggle of good vs. evil, and although I prefer the benevolent side of nature, I also understand the need for the destructive side. I do believe in magic and have managed to do a few successful spells from time to time. It's not an everyday thing and it does not define my personal beliefs.

Answer 3

One of the major components of true spell work is force of will. force of will comes only when you know your self and are confident of your abilities. So there is no good spell that you can cast for yourself that will give you confidence, because you must have confidence and faith before you can cast a spell.

There are spells for beauty and respect, although the best way to get respect is to give respect and let your actions earn you respect. And please do not confuse respect with fear, I know far to many young people that think they can gain respect through being a bully, tough, or through intimidation, that is not respect it is fear, and fear always turns into hatred in the long run.

Answer 4

There are no simple effective spells for anything. All magick is simply positive thought made manifest.

Those who are confident in themselves will naturally unlock their inner beauty. Those who are beautiful from within will gain the respect of others. Respect of oneself and from others builds confidence.

Feel free to step onto the merry-go-round at any time.

Answer 5

Yeah, it's called life experience. You'll get it if you were meant to get it when you have EARNED it. No spells needed. Learn patience & acceptance in the here & now & stop trying to control your future. In case you haven't noticed, the future is actually controlling YOU because you are asking total stangers for an answer that should only be between YOU & your spiritual bounds with the earths energy. WAKE-UP! You need to believe in yourself before you can get anything you ask for. It must be earned. Don't be a fool. YOU ARE BEING TESTED BY OTHERS. LEARN TO WALK AWAY & TUNE THEM OUT BEFORE YOU END UP JUST LIKE THEM! YOU SHOULD NOT BE NICE TO EVERYONE UNTIL THEY SHOW THEMSELVES AS WORTHY TO BE TRUSTED BY YOU!!!!!!

Answer 6

These changes have to be affected from within to be real, so possibly a spell might indeed be helpful... but spellcasting is extremely personal and I don't know you well enough to make a recommendation, because I don't know what issues may be keeping you from seeing yourself as you'd like to be.

I would suggest how I think it's usually best to begin work on problems, by setting aside some quiet time for yourself for being still and clarifying what your perception is, what you want it to be, and what you need to do to get from here to there.

BTW it's very hard to read messages in all caps.

Answer 7

You don't need a spell for that when there are so many real life things you can use. If you have confidence, you will gain the respect of others. Because you have confidence, you will take pride and care in your appearance and bingo-there's beauty. Have faith in yourself.

Answer 8

If you really want to cast these spells, study the craft because the spells that work the best are the ones you create yourself.

Answer 9

anything worth anything has to be worked for... beauty... get some sleep stay well rested... gaining respect... respect is something earned, so earn it... true self esteem is nurtured from the inside out not the outside in... what I mean here is that people who make themselves feel better by putting others down don't build self esteem... be the person you wish to be nurture that inside yourself and only compare yourself to your yesterday to see if you have improved.

Answer 10

First of all, your shift key sticks.

Second: yes, there are spells for attracting beauty and gaining confidence. But they all require backing up with more mundane work--that is, taking care of yourself and your health, and working to overcome whatever is making you less confidant than you feel you should be.

Like spells for love--what you get is ultimately what you give.