He told me that he's been with one gf for about 5 years, but the relationship ended 2 years ago. He also told me that he hasn't been dating anyone ever since. He told me all of the past things he has done...both good and bad and asked me if I can except his past time. I don't really care much about people past time, what really matter is the present. Just recently I found out that he's been datting or actually in a relationship with someone in 06 to the beginning of 07. Him and her has been datting and broke up, then started a relationship again and so on. From what I know he still talks to her and hang out....but he's still single. He seem like a very nice guy and such, and I really like him. I don't know if I should give him a chance or not. I'm afraid to be heart broken if anything else happen.
2007-08-14 11:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by sweety 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay first off let me say I find him to be dishonest . I think that he is a loser run !!!
2007-08-14 11:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I got to say if you know all this about this guy and you still want to try to come between this lying a-- guy and his now girlfriend, you deserve a broken heart because that will be the only thing that will come out of this. It is girls like you that make nice girls look bad. When you know some one is in a relationship why would you sit back and even give it any thought. Get your own boyfriend and leave that jackass alone, he told you he didn't have any one, he lied to you. Why would you want some who lies, Oh, oh, let ME answer this question, you think you can change him and he would never lie to you. Girl leave that guy alone with his now girlfriend, back off, unless you want a broken heart.
2007-08-14 18:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are very far into this relationship, and you know that he has lied to you. It doesn't sound like you are the kind of person who wants to live with a liar. Once a liar, always a liar. I would suggest you cut your losses and get out while the getting is good. I was forgiving enough to marry a guy who I knew lied to me before we were even married. Eleven years, and hundreds of thousands of dollars later, he emerged as a real scammer. Be careful, and make decisions for you and no one else.
2007-08-14 18:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, what a question...so he lies, you catch him, and you know he is lying and you want to know if you should continue into a relationship with him...hmmm.
No!!!!!!!!!!
People who tell you the truth and stick with it..are more likely to gain you forever trust..someone who lies and will tell you what you want to hear, instead of being honest..will make you not trust them with the big things.
Do you want to marry a man who might lie to you. Why waste your time dating someone that you just can't see spending the rest of your life with..I mean dating is after all a trial period between two people who like each other and might some day want to spend the rest of their lives together.
Take it from me, a person who lies about the little stuff..will lie about the big stuff. And that is NOT an easy thing to live with. You teach yourself to not trust a word he says..every time he goes some where without you..you wonder "Did he tell me a lie about what he has done".
There is a guy I know, he is a player from hell, loves women, loves to date..etc...BUT he is honest with the girls he dates. They all know about his other girls and they stick with him and date him because he is honest..I am friends with 3 of the gals he is seeing..and they all adore him. I respect him, even tho I don't agree with his commitment issues..I agree with his honesty. That is what makes him attractive.
Lying is a bad habbit to get into..honest is soo much more fun!
2007-08-14 18:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dragonflyshan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you know that he has been dating (just like you told us), then wait for his explanation. Before accepting that explanation - think real hard about whether you really trust him in the long run if he is lying to you already.
2007-08-14 18:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm sounds fishy to me girl. If you really like him I would proceed with DEEP CAUTION. Take things really slow. If hes pushy especially about sex then drop him right on the spot because thats a dead give away of what he really wants.
2007-08-14 18:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been involved with a perpetual liar...no hope there...leave him in the dust, trust is not a word they understand
2007-08-14 18:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gice him a chance at what he isnt your boyfriend, he can see and talk to anyone doesnt mean anything, if you guys were in a relationship which yr not then i would say for sure that it bothrs me when you talk to what hername and still look at her i would say he probably is still arttracted to her ,,,thats my opinion
2007-08-14 18:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by mepurplegee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's commitment-phobic and dishonest. Sounds like a loser in my opinion.
2007-08-14 18:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Guernica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save your heartbreak for someone more honest, I think.
2007-08-14 18:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by kenny e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋