I almost lost it. I drove over to my bf’s house, because we were going to go out for the day. His mom let me in then went off to work. I went to his room and accidentally walked in on him completely naked just coming out of the shower. He was all wet and sexy. My fantasy was right before my eyes. So I closed the door behind me and told him “don’t you f**king move.” And he didn’t. I walked over to him and begin kissing him along his neck and down his spine to the small of his back. Then I playfully bit his butt cheek. (he has a really nice butt.) I came back up and we started making out. Then he tried to have sex with me but I told him that I wasn’t ready.
He was upset but understanding, he called me his “little tease” in a loving way. But I feel bad for him because he’s been such a great patient guy. Should I break up with him and let him find someone who is ready and willing
2007-08-14 08:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't end it.
If he loves you he'l wait for you.
No matter what.
2007-08-14 08:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u ask him how he feels about u guys not having sex. If he can't keep it in his pants till ur ready then ya u need to break up. But u also have to realize that it would be really hard for him to stop when ur all over him like that and then say no. U cant do those things if ur not willing to go all the way. My advice is to talk to him about it.
2007-08-14 15:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why he was upset. You said what you said when he got out of the shower, and you started the teasing. But he sounds like he was understanding. That's no reason to break up with a guy like that. Keep him around and when the time is right he'll be there.
2007-08-14 15:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him right from the start of the relationship that you are not interested in that. Why not wait? Because he called you a little tease... I would be insulted. Not wanting to have sex, does not make you a tease. That is disrespectful, I think. However you pretty quickly got involved with him... If you really didnt want sex why didnt you just... apologize and go out of his room?
2007-08-14 15:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Unafraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! it sounded like he wanted too but he was quite happy to wait for you. that shows he cares and of all the guys i know sex isnt that important especially when your in a happy relationship. the thing he'll want least is for you to leave him. the best thing for you to do is wait untill your ready and make sure he knows where you are. up untill that day you can carry on teasing and having fun!
2007-08-14 15:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you feel comfortable. Right now it's just teenage hormones driving you crazy. The best thing to do is help him understand you want to wait. Any man who loves you will understand and care.
2007-08-14 15:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, you are not ready and he will obviously understand and respects you. I will say this, have a talk with him about what your expectations and what his are.before you make a decision.
I am sure that your boyfriend was not upset with you for not having sex, but please note that you have to respect him and his body too.
I am not saying that you were wrong to stop if you are not ready, just talk about it.
2007-08-14 16:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tracey Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think you should break up with him, if he's been willing to wait for you this long then I'm sure he really likes you for you. If he really likes you though he will wait for you like a good boyfriend should!
2007-08-14 16:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by lin-z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats stupid dont break up with him this guy is great since he is willing to wait
2007-08-14 15:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him... why do i even talk on these god.. look if he really likes you he will wait till you really are ready.. if he dosnt then kick him to the curb
2007-08-14 16:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by chrisknochelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋