why are some guys malign their girlfriend like calling them names, telling them how ugly they were , that they don't look good on this. etc.
my boyfriend for instance, he always boast around, if he gets his chance to tell me how such a hot chick his buddy's girlfriend is. why would he do that? he very well know that he will hurt my feelings.. making me feel down and depressed and ugly.
if he's not satisfy with me he can let go of me anytime, and sometimes if i initiate the break up he also won't let me go..
then why does he do that?
2007-08-14 08:07:43 · 20 answers · asked by oh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Because he has no self-esteem, so he gets a kick out of watching your reaction when he knocks yours down a few pegs.
He has absolutely no respect for you. Find someone who does.
2007-08-14 08:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by circe 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are in an abusive relationship. He does stuff to hurt your feelings, to lower your self-esteem so you will feel you deserve it if he ever physically assaults you. And even if he never hits you, he will have you feeling so crappy, that you won't mind it when he dumps all over you. You need to find a way to get out of this relationship fast. Do whatever you can to cut off all contact with him, and let your friends know you are trying to excise him from your life. You will need all the support you can get.
And you should also talk to a women's crisis center about how best to go about this.
2007-08-14 15:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by VeggieTart -- Let's Go Caps! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm just 15 and i dont know alot about that kinda stuff but i have had a fue serious boyfriends and if any of them ever treated me that way i would drop them faster than i would a pan in the oven that i touched with out a hot pad....my aunt and i are vary close she recently got a divorce she was married to the guy for 3 years and i noticed he did the same thing to her all the time....you need to realize that your are you and that makes you special and no1 has the right to make you fill that way
2007-08-14 15:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by sara 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to run out of that relationship!!!! He is emotionally abusing you!!!! He doesnt want to let you go becuase he needs to feel strong and important and the only way he can do that is by putting you down.
You deserve someone so much better then him and best believe there is someone out there for you...just be patient gain confidence and move on with your life!
2007-08-14 15:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by suavi29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you giving away the milk for free? Also guys are unsensitive easily tempted. I think you need to find a better guy. Quit taking him back and pick a winner instead of this loser.
2007-08-14 15:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by MrMyers 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean 'he won't let you go?"
You: Bob, you're a jackass who makes me feel lousy. We're through.
Bob: I'm not letting you break up with me.
You: Well I'm not going out with you, returning your calls, returning your emails, and I'm giving you back all the crap you left at me place. Then I'm going to start dating other guys. I'd call that breaking up with you.
2007-08-14 15:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by LX V 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear Oh,
He is a TROLL get rid of the sewer. Never put up with that kind of treatment, you deserve better. He is stomping on your self-esteem many, many nice guys out there.
2007-08-14 15:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To make himself self - important and make certain you think he is " The Man", , he puts YOU down. DO NOT feel ugly or depressed. A real man builds his woman up .... he never puts her down!!! NEVER!!!
Now, what are you going to do about his loser azz????
2007-08-14 20:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is one of those guys who wants it all his way and doesn't know how be a gentleman because he was taught via playboy magazine and the internet how to be a man.
So dump him and tell him when he learns to behave in a more gentlemanly-like manner you will reconsider.
2007-08-14 15:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It makes him feel big and masculine to do that to you. If only he knew how wrong he is. In reality he is just a bully. You would be better off without him.
2007-08-14 15:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by pete 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋