ive been alone for 21 years i could of had more than 200 relation ships but i always backed away from it cause something keeped on telling me adam she is not for you .... the girl of my dreams is she out there somewhere or did i meet her but never noticed she was the one?
2007-08-14 07:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by dicaprio_xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel.I could have been in a relationship a few times but taken a step back because of this feeling that this girl is not right for me.But what I do know is that I know when the right girl will be there for me because I will experience a different feeling from all the other girls. Just keep that in mind.
Remember the meaning of life, it's always about person next to you
2007-08-14 09:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by medic_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. How do you define the "girl of your dreams?" Is it a realistic possibility, or an idiotic ideal based on fantasy? Are you really waiting for the right girl, or are you sabotaging yourself because you are shy or not ready?
I think knowing what you want is a good thing... but only if what you want is realistic. Knowing you can't get on with a girl who smokes or who has different religious beliefs than you or who wants children when you don't... those are realistic and smart reasons not to date someone. Their not having red hair or being too short or not being named Jessica Alba are dumb, unrealistic reasons not to like someone. If you have seriously let 200 relationships go by the wayside, then I am willing to bet my life savings that you are being nit-picky, trivial, and unrealistic. Re-evaluate yourself and what you want. If that does not help, then I suggest counseling.
Is the girl of your dreams out there? Probably not. Dreams are not real. Dreams are fantasy. BUT... the RIGHT girl for you IS out there. You just have to get out there and make yourself available to her.
Good luck!
2007-08-14 07:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me about it i have done the same now i have come 2 the conclution that u dont no until u try,i dont think u have met her because u would no,like i would have it will happen but like me ur tired of waiting y dont u go out and except an offer c how it goes,if u dont like it u tried.but u have not met her yet tho good luck!
2007-08-14 07:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be out there somewhere.
=D
I have a dream of a guy too.
He was kindda cute though
but I don't believe he's exist.
=[
Go you! lollz
2007-08-14 16:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by kacspar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go and let god,once you've tryed everything turn it over to him.I believe there is someone for everyone.
2007-08-14 07:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by markc4364 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. 200 . have you been counting romeo or are you in your dreams
2007-08-14 07:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll know when you meet her shes out there dont rush things
2007-08-14 07:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will be your woman , im brill
2007-08-14 07:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋