ok my best freind(is a guy) well he spent the night at this familys house that was his grandmas freind...for fourth of july and the daughter snuck ito the bed with him and...well you know what i mean....and he didn't know her at all...they just met her that day...do you thank that he's really in love or just that he's blinded becasue she did it with him???
i'm in love with him and i was just wondering...
2007-08-14 07:09:30 · 36 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now he's dateing this girl and says he's in love....yes i've told him many times that i love him and for a time heloved me ack but hten gave up becasue my mom sadi we couldn't date...and also i haven't seen him in forever....he ran away from his grandmas were he was liveing and is liveing with this girl and he fam. there both 15 and idk the girl at all so i donb't want to judge her he sadi that maybe when we got older he'd give me a try(date me) but now that this girls in his life he says that he's fallen in love so hard and he'snever gonna fall out and that hes sry but he's really in love so i won't beable to get a chance wit him i belive thant inside he really dose love me but hes just a blinded and confused teenager...he was't a virgin when he met this girl the same kind of thing happen b4 he met this girl to....i know it's not my busniuess but i just was wondering
2007-08-14 07:46:42 · update #1
well it depends if he was a virgin =/ i mean if he was a virgin and he lost it to her its really hard to let go of someone
buttt i dont see why its so hard if he just met her.. i mean it might have been love at first sight..
let him no about how u feel!
2007-08-14 07:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how can you love a guy who has done that with a girl whom he actually even dnt knw fully.
Suppose for eg: if you love him and if he also loves you now then wats the gurantee that he will ONLY LOVE YOU ?? He may love any girl any time.
Secondly: If a guy does that shameful work then it means that he is unstable. He wont love that girl whom he actually finished everything that night. I am damn Sure that he wont love that girl
If you still blind in this love on him then u can still love that fellow but i suggest you must wait till you get your true beloved soon..
All the best
2007-08-14 07:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he may be blinded by love. Why don't you ask him? Are you afraid of what the outcome might be. Sometimes honestly will get you very far in life and that maybe just maybe you will get the answer. On the other girl's side haha well it sounds to me like she is just one horney S**T but that is just my opinion. Tell him how you feel and that you don't know what is going on. If he is your best friend, he will come out and tell you what is going on.
Wishing you the best of luck!
2007-08-14 07:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by rphiavong214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not in love with her because like you said they just met. I mean love at first sight may be but it does not sound like it is. Just make sure you let him know how you feel. bite the bullet because you will be the one getting hurt if you keep seeing him sleeping with other girls or doing anything for that matter with any other girl. Just go in for the kill. You can dig around and see if he has the same feelings aswell if you are afraid of what he may say. You can beat around the bush or go for it! good luck let me know!
2007-08-14 07:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you waste your time on this guy since he was not showing any interest in you but only for the other girl? You are young and there are so many opportunities for you and one day you will meet a good guy who who reciprocrate your love. You might only be infatuated with him. As for him it might be infatuation or maybe lust for her. No telling.
2007-08-14 09:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sal SR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think hes in love it was just sex and that blinded him. How can he be inlove with a girl that he just meet. He has know you longer and that other girl for like a day. Dont worry about it to much. The question is dues he like you how does he act with you.
2007-08-14 07:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just all over her because she did that that one night. Once she goes away, things will get back to normal. However if you are really in love with him you might want to let him know and see if he has the same feelings for you.
2007-08-14 07:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a reallly hard situation to be in. love? maybe not, it could be just lust (cause she satisfied his need in the middle of the night). You being in love with your best friend is crazy cause you should of told him how you felt when you started looking at him to more then a best friend so theres really nothing you can do at this point but hope and wish that he realized that the girl was a skanky slu# and slept with him on the first night they met, imagine how many guys she probaly slept with on the first night...ewww wat a slu#
2007-08-14 07:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by medgy17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think he's in love. Just that no normal guy would pass up an opportunity to get laid if that girl is decent looking. However, if she is nice, and beautiful and everything else, then he might just fall for her.
2007-08-14 07:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by AntiDepressant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your best friend is just 'hung up' on her for sleeping with her. Eventually, it'll pass...It seems to me that it was more of a physical attraction more than anything.
I doubt he's in love with her; if anything, he just likes her for the sex.
Harsh, but true.
But, I can relate to you. I used to love my best friend who was also a guy. I'd have to sit through and hear about all these girls he was attracted to, until finally, I built up the courage and told him I like him. We dated, but sadly enough, things didn't really work out for us.
If anything, try to love him no matter what.
Don't judge him for his mistakes.
2007-08-14 07:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it could be love at first sight. I don't think he is from the way it sounds he's blinded. But you know you can't get mad if he doesn't know you are in love with. So how about telling him.
2007-08-14 07:16:14 · answer #11 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋