I hear all the time about people ending up with the "wrong one" and then finding the "right one"... What would you do if you were in this position???
2007-08-14 06:53:07 · 16 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think we sometimes go wrong when we say right person or wrong person, it all depends on us how we move or stay with our partners. I think it's just the matter of understanding, believing or trusting and being honest to each other. doing these, I think each and everyone will get his or her Mr./Mrs. Right.
2007-08-14 07:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 42 yrs old and would remember the grass is not always greener on the other side.
People fall in love, and then they fall out of love over someone new. Then the new person gets old and they end up in the same old predicament.
Love is what you make it. There is a lot to be said for committment in a relationship. You know.....sticking it out thru the hard times and working to make the sparks fly.
I have taken care of elderly patients in the hospital who have been married for 70 yrs. They literally are lost without their soul mate and they are as much in love with that person as they were the day they met them.
I dont believe you end up with the wrong one unless of course he beats you or spends all your hard earned money.
I think its all about being committed to another individual. If you leave the relationship, whose to say you will not be made more misreable with the next one.
2007-08-14 14:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just in that position. My gf and I had been together 1 year and 2 months. We had lived together for 2 summers. Our relationship was at a level of prbably most 3-4 year relationships. But we grew apart. I still love her but as a friend. She feels the same about me. Its tough but we just realized we had to seperate. It sucks because it left a huge void in both our lives. When your use to spending so much time with your best friend and then they are gone, its never going to be easy. But now I couldn't be happier. Now I can sit back and see all these things that were wrong, but didnt want to face before. Its a tough decision and you will second guess yourself all the way. But you should do it if youve already thought it.
2007-08-14 13:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by hvfreestyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are strong enough, you leave and don't stay in a situation where you are miserable. It is going to be painful and a mess, but long term is the way to go. I've been there and so has my husband.....we made the right decision. It would have been tragic to stay with our respective "wrongs", even though it caused a lot of pain at the time. It wasn't fair to our ex's to stay in relationships where they were not loved.
2007-08-14 13:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by dmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most people relationships aren't entirely about love. relationships enter into obligation teritory very quickly. it could be that they have built a life together (kids, house, joint accounts) and when the righ one does come along it's a tough choice between starting over (many are afraid to take the risk) or remaining where it's confortable. so for me if i realized i was with the wrong person it most likely wouldn't me too far into the relationship and i would just leave.
2007-08-14 13:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit that person down and have a conversation with them and end that relationship. You don't want to spend the rest of your life with the wrong person.
2007-08-14 13:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Handsome Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the circumstances... Why live a life with someone you don't like??? life is too short but do it the right way and end things before you find someone else! good luck
2007-08-14 13:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would just have to break it. You can't spend your life lying to someone because no one deserves to have someone do that to them. Honesty will serve you well in this situation, both people need to be happy anyways in order to make the relationship work.
2007-08-14 13:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible to know if someone is the "right one" unless you live with that person for at least a year so if your with another you cant possibly know if someone else is right for you.
2007-08-14 14:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd evaluate my life...am I happy with the "wrong one"? Will the "right one" be any better? then I'd probably call Dr. Phil
2007-08-14 13:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋