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My son is in a long distance relationship at the moment and it seems "empty" by dating standards. I don't see him enjoying the things that local relationships have...movies, dinner, dancing, etc.... So, to make a long story short, I don't see either one of them being fulfilled and will eventually reach out to someone that IS local and around which will end the relationship of distance. They don't/can't work.


Sandy :O)

2007-08-14 06:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

i went out wit a bird from wales once an im from england it worked out fo quite a long time so much trust in each other but the only thing that split us was i only saw her maybe 5-6 times a year which may seem alot but its just not enough so unless your ok with 5-6 times a year go for it life is defo 2 short

2007-08-14 06:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

They can only work out if one of you is prepared to move. If you are in different countries you can't have a normal relationship, something has to give.

If you really want to be together then you will make the sacrifice, I moved to Greece and married my man, I left my family, friends and my career to be with him.

It was a holiday romance and everyone said it would never work, well we have been married almost two years and we are expecting our first baby in 8 weeks.

2007-08-14 06:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 2 0

Its bull thst people say they dont work, wiht me being in the RAF and my other half being in the Army we have just had to go 11 months without seeing ach other. We are stil together now and stronger then ever, speaking on the phone and the internet got us through and as long as the 2 people are committed then it can work andi am living proof

2007-08-14 06:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by lollybolly 2 · 1 0

I tried it once. well, me and my ex. cuz I move to another city....

it 's hard to work out , cuz' sometimes the another person will cheat.
plus, what abt a hug or a kiss? it 's like u gotta wait for a long time to get physically with ur another half.
but it can works out. when two people have strong feeling for each other .

2007-08-14 06:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by babyloverbee 2 · 0 0

They work...but generally only if there's something to work towards. For example, if you work far apart but will be moving near each other soon, then that's more likely to work. When I was at university I found it hard to cope being so far from my boyfriend, but we knew we'd be living back in our home town after two years which, although it seems ages, was what kept us going. Also seeing each other at holidays and stuff. It depends also on how far apart you are, and why.

2007-08-14 06:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by mishmash 3 · 0 0

They can work if both people are mature and commited to one another. It is unfortunate that one person may have more commitment than the other; though that can be said about many relationships that aren't long-distance.

2007-08-14 06:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 3 0

Hey..well they are harder than if u were to date sumone u see regulary. but they are worth it. I promise. Try and get a messanger set up and make times that u will both be on. or use phone! its acctually easier than ppl make it sound. yes they are hard. but they are worth it 100%. Cuz when u see eachother..u make it worth the time becuz u donno when u will see eachother again so u make the best out of it!! Im in one at the moment.and im happier with him then i was with ne other boyfriend ive had that lived where i live!! What u got to do is Try and dont take ANY TIME for granted! It will work out i f u have TRUST. IF you trust her then its good. but if u dont think u can...talk about it with her.
good luck
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2007-08-14 07:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by K4CI 2 · 0 0

Me and my ex dated for a year and 2 months, 7 of them were long distance..

Right now.. **** I think we are both going to move on.. We both want someone there, there is no trust...

I would not get in one if you did not have to..

I

2007-08-14 06:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by ohiostate114 2 · 0 0

Hi,my partner has had to work abroad for the last 15 years
this saturday we will have been married 35 years.Our marriage has always been strong.It can be a hard life however it will not last forever.

2007-08-14 06:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0 0

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