i meet a two guys the same nigh one is handsome but the other one is just okay.i start dating the okay one because i trust him more but the other one keeps calling m n i keep thinking about him.should i let the one i'm dating go n start with the other one?i like both of him one make me happy n laugh but the other one is so cute even i know h ca make me cry.what should i do?
2007-08-14 06:33:19 · 40 answers · asked by haitian_flirt1126 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for the one who makes you laugh. Not the cute one who can make you cry...
2007-08-14 06:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by 12345 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I must say, I think this is completely ridiculous. If the nice "okay" guy has done nothing wrong and is making you happy why go for another guy. If the only reason why you are going after the other guy is because he is more attractive than in all honesty you don't deserve the guy you are with.
If I had to say you are why too immature to be in a real relationship anyways, stop dragging these guys down.
2007-08-14 06:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by fire_fall_now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're answered your own questions, chick. It doesn't sound like you have the presence of mind to really be with either guy, in my opinion. Your decision is choosing between a "okay-looking" guy you trust and a "handsome" one you KNOW will make you cry? What kind of dilemma is that? Do you really need someone to tell you what you already know...and want?
Personally, I think you should stop dating until you know your own mind. But since that's not going to happen, you should follow your fickle little heart ('cause you're gonna anyway) since you're obviously adept at ignoring your head. Good luck in the future.
2007-08-14 06:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well the sad thing is you never know if all a guy wants is your sex... but not all guys are like that. I would stay with the okay one because if you can trust him more you will feel better around him and the chances are if you feel better around the guy you will be less likely to embarrass yourself. But If you go with the hot one you will be too busy trying to impress him and be at a higher risk of embarrassment. And you said the guy was okay looking and not bad... so stay with him! youll probably have a better time.
2007-08-14 06:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Callieee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well don't tag the other one along while you make your decision. And don't base who you date just on looks, because looks are not everything. Someone that is kind and makes you laugh is very important. Why don't you just date, and don't lock down on just one. Get to know them both as friends then make a decision.
2007-08-14 06:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your Heart say? do follow your heart and choose one of them because it's not fair to date the two. But if you really want an advice, then I will say date the one you are already dating because at least I think you know him to be funny guy. Do you know that making someone happy or laughing increases his or her life? think twice!! good luck
2007-08-14 06:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay missy well you have to decide for yourself what YOU want. To me it sounds like you want theguy who is handsome. I'd say with the okay one.Does the handsome one know you have a boyfriend? If so he's still calling you think about whatif you were in a relationship with him. He could be doing that to another girl. The okay guy sounds sincere and sounds like he'd treat you right. You know us girls always want a good guy and when he comes around we have second thoughts. Its okay to still be friends with him but nothing more. Really sweetie its on you. You know what you want. Sometimes we should go with what our hearts says and not our minds. Its on you girlie good luck!
2007-08-14 06:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one that has a better personality. If the other one makes you cry then you shouldn't really be with him then even if he is not cute. Use common sense and stick to the one that you have a great time with.
2007-08-14 06:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think go with the one that doesn't make you cry. He may not be as cute, if can trust him that is worth more than anything. Besides who would want even the greatest looking guy in the world, if he wasn't really yours? And looks fade.
2007-08-14 06:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by evening.mood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are having the classic Looks vs personality argument , Correct? ....Well "all that glitters is not gold" ....
All looks, he probably has more offers, and what if he looks at you like you look at the not so cute guy. Dont be too superficial....But hey have fun too, maybe date them BOTH!
2007-08-14 06:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by mlk682 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋