Well, I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me, I found out his password and have all the evidence that he cheated on me with 2 girls and was talking smack about me to these girls, he was also talking samck about those girls to me. Jerk!
Anyway, I was thinking about posting all the emails to the girls and me on their myspace account, so eveyone can see what kind of jerk he is. I want revenge and want to hurt him as bad as he hurt me. Is that a good idea, or should I just let it go and move on and be happy? Any advice? Thanks
2007-08-14 06:28:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the bigger person here. Yes, he is a jerk for cheating on you, but that just goes to show his immaturity.
You need to show him you are better than that. You have the sense enough to walk away with your head held high and know you are the better person.
Every dog has their day, and believe me, if he keeps running around on girls the way he does it will catch up to him, and you can then stand on the sidelines and laugh, knowing you dumped him and were mature enough to do it the right way.
Revenge eventually will back fire.
Good luck!
2007-08-14 06:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you post it on their myspace accounts, they can just delete it. You can post it on your own, but that's airing a little too much of your dirty laundry. You need to dump him and be the bigger person. You want to be able to look back on this and know you acted with class. I was cheated on, too and I saved and printed out all of the emails. I wanted to send the emails to the girl's husband, but I waited until the emotion of the moment was gone, and i realized that it wasn't the right thing to do. If you're not sure, just wait. See how you feel in 1 month.
2007-08-14 06:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Katie G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey let him go move on and be happy, don't stoop to his level by posting the emails. The other girls will find out just what type of person he is. Even if you post the emails they won;t believe you, sometimes we have to experience things for ourselves, because we don't want to hear what someone else is saying, they may accuse you of being jealous. Let it ride, and carry on. Good Luck :)
2007-08-14 06:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kick his genitals and be over with; going through all that trouble probably isn't worth the time.
2007-08-14 06:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by longd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WAAAAAH!!!
If you'd taken good enough care of him in the first place he wouldn't have had to go elsewhere.
Don't punish him for something that's your fault. That email thing is just going to make you look like a crazy b**ch and make those other girls want him more once they see how upset you are at losing him.
2007-08-14 06:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
dump the dumbF**k
2007-08-14 06:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by *!*Queenie*!* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NIKE SAYS "JUST DO IT"
2007-08-14 06:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋