2007-08-14 06:04:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah thats a tough one what i would suggest is sit her down talk to her and try to get her to relize that this isnt working and that you too will be happier as friends and hope that she understands. although this will hurt her it will be a lot better than a break up on the phone.
2007-08-14 06:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Breaking up is hard to do for everyone. Even if you both think it is the right move, both of you will still hurt a little. It is very very hard to do this without hurting her.
Pretty much the best thing to do is be honest with why you think it is over and why you think you need to move on. Do not lie, do not make false promises, and do not try to tiptoe around it and not hurt her - she is going to be hurt no matter what.
2007-08-14 13:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cinoi1551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first things first, it's impossible for a guy to break up with her girl without hurting her (unless of course she doesn't love you anymore) I've done this before and I had a pretty hard time thinking about how to break up with her. Well what I did was lame, I did it by letter, but I let her read the letter in front of me, I need to see how she would react to that.. Well, I hope this helps. Good luck...
2007-08-14 13:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by usually anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on why your breaking up with her. If your breaking up with her to go out with someone else then you need to comfort her and tell her that maybe she wasn't' your type, You can't just tell her the old "I'm not ready for a relationship" and then turn around and go out with someone else. If your not planning on going out with someone else, then tell her she's a great person and that you do care for her and then tell her what you don't like about it. You want to make her feel good about herself when you dump her to help ease the pain that she will feel either way. I'm sorry to tell you this but there is no painless dump. But we can do our best to minimize the pain anyways.
2007-08-14 13:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by DoctorCoup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly, the only way to break up with anyone without hurting them is if they also wish to break up. Sorry.
2007-08-14 13:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by goo. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The manly thing would be just tell her point blank, "This isn't working for me, and I need to move on"..
...on the other hand..the weasel approach would be to have one of your anonymous best looking guy friends come on to her, and when she takes the bait (if she takes the bait), tell her you know about it, and that since you can't trust her, then it's over. I strongly suggest the first one personally, but a friend of mine did the second without much fanfare, as she blamed herself.
2007-08-14 13:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't break up without hurting someone, but you can be as nice about it as you can. Just don't put her down and bow out gracefully.
2007-08-14 13:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as breaking up with someone and not hurting their feelings. Sorry no way out of this one.
2007-08-14 13:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You just have to be as nice and understanding as possible. Keep in mind that you would hurt her worse by staying in a relationship you did not want to be in.
2007-08-14 14:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by The Seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her at Disneyland. No one can be sad or hurt at the happiest place on Earth. Right?
2007-08-14 13:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by gh0st 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋