I recently saw my mans thing for the first time...i sucked on it a little but i didnt really know what i was doing. He wants me to finish him off but im really nervous...i had to reassure him that i liked it cause he thought that i hated it. I love him so much and i want to do it for him but idk what to do!!! HELP!!!
2007-08-14 05:55:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men are different. Honestly, the best thing you can do is talk to him, ask him what feels good and what he wants you to do.
2007-08-14 05:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...where do I start?
1. If you don't know what to do...try a website for the magazine like cosmo or go to www.gurl.com make a username and read under post boards-relationships & sex.
2. Just do what you are comfortable with. If you feel pressured, don't bother-not worth it.
3. Be open to discussion-if you really don't like it- tell him. Maybe work around it-flavored condoms? haha. That way you are okay-and he obviously is too!
4. Just take time. You don't have to rush into things. Relationships are supposed to be fun..not scary. If you don't feel ready..wait a while.
5. Nervous--tell him! If you are unsure what to do, ask him. Asking him what he wants/likes is a good thing-because then you wont be wrong, and he'll appreciate you asking.
Nevertheless,
Good Luck.
Hope I helped.
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2007-08-14 13:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by hesmycorky4life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just know that nobody should force you into doing something you don't like, if he loves you he will understand or at least give you time to learn. Try using your hand and tongue movements to, this adds some spice to the situation... a lot of guys like to be sucked with an ice cube too... try that.
Good Luck
2007-08-14 13:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then it doesnt mean that you should do this.
You should take a plenty of time before this and never hurry up so fast.
Know one real truth. Men will start moving far from a girl whom he finished that. I think you can understnd wat i mean.
So if you really really love him and want to have him all your life then stay close to him and avoid this till marriage or a strong commitment.
Just my advice. Still if you are interested to do this then just go ahead but u will surely loose him if you do it.
Thats a simple formula. Once done then he wil leave and go for another
2007-08-14 13:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel girl... i was really nervous the first time i gave my man a bj too... the best thing to do is pretend you are sucking on a lolipop or popsickle... have him just lay back and close his eyes if it makes you more nervous with him watching you or turn the lights off, that helps too. youll get used to it after a few times doing it and ask him what it feels like when you are touching him and sucking on him, it helps to hear what he likes when you touch and feel on him...
2007-08-14 13:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by salena j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...not sure if this constitutes adult content or not, but it's important to remember that you shouldn't have to do anything just to please your man, nor should he be pressuring you to do something you might not be ready to do.
Nervousness is natural for the first time you do anything. The most important thing you can do is take it slowly and don't do anything that you feel isn't right or comfortable for you. You might also go to your local book store and check in to some books on relationships and intimacy that will explain the proper ways to do things like this.
2007-08-14 13:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by firebugarts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember no teeth. Use your hand a lot too, it helps your mouth not become so tired and although guys hate to hear this, you don't have to let him finish in your mouth. No matter what he says not all girls do that. In any sexual situation only do what is comfortable for you. And remember to ask him to return the favor.
2007-08-14 13:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jamiel L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then he wouldnt make you feel preasured into doing something you arnt totally comfortable with..you may love him. but i wouldnt do it if i really wasnt sure..you will probably want to do that 1 day in the heat of the moment...get used to the whole ******** thing 1st.
2007-08-14 13:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOKAYYYYYY you should be sincere with him. tell him your willing to do it and ask him how hi likes it. Maybe the first couple of times your not gonna like it but then you get use to it. Girl, you gotta please your man! ;)
2007-08-14 13:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by pretty_brunette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW umm i say just have fun with it act like its a lollipop use no teeth!
2007-08-14 12:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by michelledianee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋