is looks inportant?

Question

well, looks wise, i am not that great. definitely no hourglass. figure sorta 30-24-32, skinny. and i'm short, being 5'2. asian, black hair, brown eyes. just the typical girl next door sorta look.
personality wise, i am very witty, confident , outgoing and smart. constantly in the centre of attention. and always cheerful and fun. in my worse, very high maintainance and demanding.
is this alright with most? looks, i do not feel very attractive, but is my personality ok?

Answer 1

Sweetheart, it will all depend on what the guy is looking for. Guys looking for fun are gonna be looking for beauty on the outside, while guys looking for somethng serious are not going to focus on the outside as much. Its who the person is that counts. I don't think you need to worry, cause you got many qualities guys want.... just make sure you know what you want in someone else and look for it, and soon you'll get it. I wish you luck and the best babe, have a great day!

Answer 2

Now this is how it works!!!
Humans judge people first by the way they physically look.
after that then you sit down and have a conversation with them and thats how they get to know how beautiful you are inside.
Judging people by the way they look is probably the greatest human weakness that personally I have ever come across.
But here is a reason to not care much about how you look physically...

Intelligent people who appreciate others don't care much about how they look from outside.

Personally I am more interested in what one says than how the tip of their nose turns pink when they frown or whatever.

Many people look for the superficial stuff in others and then come to realize that intelligence and inner beauty is what they like the most in others.

Looks don't matter. They only matter to those who emphasize on superficial stuff

Answer 3

Somewhat, but not to all people.
Everyone has their own set definition as to what pretty means and what one thinks is pretty, another will think it is ugly.
The same goes for people's looks.
Look at The woman from "Cheers", the old sitcom.
Many men thought the raspy throated woman who became famous for being fat and losing weight was gorgeous, but many thought she was flat ugly!
As far as your personality goes, most men don't like high maintenence or demanding women, but if you keep a handle on that, you should do very well with the men.

Answer 4

Just compare yourself to this, which is what I'm looking for... If you fit, then you'd be my type.

I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:

1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)

Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).

Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth

Answer 5

It has never been a matter of look even in fairy tales..... Beauty and the Beast that great and sweet story..... the monster had a very bad look, yet she loved him. a true love that we might not find these days..

What remains from us after we die r our good deeds that our friends and family will remember us through them.... so keep on helping others by your smiles and jokes this will help a lot of dissapointed people around u... at this time u will feel proud of yourself and u will be very attractive:) hope u the best

Answer 6

A plus length lady with an incredible character. regardless of the undeniable fact that, as a male I even have been judged on my looks a methods too in lots of situations. somewhat 5'6", just about bald and slightly a abdomen. I even have an incredible character as quickly as human beings supply me a brilliant gamble to appreciate me. regrettably those that have not have been given lost on understanding an incredible guy or woman. I take it which you have been judged on your looks, until eventually i'm unsuitable, do exactly no longer do an analogous to somebody who exhibits pastime in you, it no longer honest in case you do.

Answer 7

I think Blue Devil above gave the best answer, Im a guy and more less my calculations are the same as him. Well done blue devil!

Not to say looks dont count, but personality is more important than looks! there are many pretty gals i wouldnt date even if they begged me too cos their personality stinks. And there are many average looking gals with amazing personalitys like blue devil mentions non-smoking etc that I would date anytime

Answer 8

Look appears to be some what important at the beginning but others become more important as time goes! You should be fine, just wait for the right guy! looks like one has already been waiting for you!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

The high maintainance and demanding part is a turn off for me. What guy wants to be bossed around by his girlfriend? Being center of attention translates to vainity, and conceit

Answer 10

Are you kidding? There are a ton of guys who will be into you. Stop worrying so much and be you. In the end your looks will not matter because once we get old we lose them (for the most part).