2 months after i started work at my present work place, he asked me out. i accepted cos i felt a strong attractn. we started something serious but now i feel he acting funny.he doesn't call 2 say hi between work anymore, he says he will call back when he gets home @ nite but claims he slept off or was too tired when i acuse him d next day xcept i call 1st to remind him. it wasn't like dat b4. we still see @ weeekends but i noticed i'm the initiator now about the weekend meetings. our relationship is just under 6 months. could he be tired of me already? i really like him alot, a whole lots. how do i know if he's not playing me? i asked if he was serious with me and he said if he wasn't he won't introduce me to his parents. does that matter? i don't want to push him with too much question cos he could be touche & temperamental @ times & i don't want 2 nag. should i be doing something i'm not? what can i do?
2007-08-14 00:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you broke the rules, and cant understand funny behavior.
like never date a person you work with
dont give your heart to someone unless they give you their heart too-even if they bring you to see their family
yet your where you are right now-the only thing i cant think of at this point is some help from above and let him direct you=I learned help from above too, to love everyone, yet to understand what love can do especially from above=do you know why God gave us a memory? So we can have a rose garden in the winter time.
Life is being born to die, yet what will we fill the inbetween with -sow good seeds for tomorrows needs
and some help from above=I was going to weeping forever for rejecting his love and salvation Matthew 24:51
Prayer changes things
Ive seen miracles through prayer in my Messiah Jesus starting with recieving him as my best friend, and savior.
"I love you and knock on your heart door to repent from sins (even one lie) and turn to me letting me into your heart to be your friend." Revelation 3:19&20
so i prayed, "Jesus thanks for dying for my sins, and I ask you to forgive me and come into my heart to help me and be my friend, amen"
1 John 5:14 And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:
praying good for you, and a miracle to help you see it too, a friend
2007-08-14 00:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. Way off. If he wants you, he will come to you. He is giving out strong signals that he doesn't feel the passion/connection he did at the beginning, and he just doesn't want to say it straight. Cowardly and loathsome, but that doesn't mean you should try HARDER to keep him. What you are doing now will not bring him back. It will drive him away. Just back off, don't call him for a while, DEFINITELY don't talk relationship for a while, see what happens. If he doesn't get in contact for a month or so, move on and write it off as a life experience. DO NOT confront him on it, however, he isn't the kind of guy who will take that well, I would bet money on that. His position leaves him with room to punish you rather brutally for any transgression which would push him to do so, and sad though it is many people will avail themselves of that opportunity at a moments notice.
2007-08-14 07:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Exosus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.what u can do is just give him some more time let be him self.u said u started dating seriously means u had physical relations with him if yes than he got what he wants from u now its time for breakup.yaa cant u understand by his behaviour n dont bother to call him or remind him that u exist.thats because he will take a back seat n enjoy.he is trying to avoid u .does he do that before no than y now.the reasons i could give u is that 1st{may be got what he wants from u }2nd {his parents might have told him something related u and him3re{he himself dont wanna have u as a life partner}introducing to parents now a days r not a big deed yaar did he said that this is the girl i want to marry noo .now a days its common to introduce to parents as this help them a lot to get things easily hmm
i really advise u plz dont try to force him to call u or say hi to u .if u have guts to face anything go to him n have face to face talk .let be clear what he is up to okk its not wright to say about work load becoz thats the time really he can tell u what he is going through .whats the solution of avoiding u for work load .ur not a kid now face the situtation feel free to talk to him relationships or meant to be gussing okkk {may god bless u { n do send me about u plz }byeee take care
2007-08-14 08:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could he be stressed out from work? Just try to ask him in an understanding way, if he feels stressed, or if he really just wants to break up. Let him go, if he says that he does. Working together and dating can sometimes be hard. You tend to see way too much of each other.
2007-08-14 07:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it sounds like he is trying to distance himself from you. It probably wasn't a good idea to be see him to start with since he is your superior at work. It could be someone in the company found out about the relationship and is putting pressure on him to end it.
2007-08-14 07:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best advice is this...... If you really like him you should take a step back from him for awhile......... give him some space......,make him come back to you,........ dont chase him,... that will push him further away...... give him and yourself a lil space .....use this time and energy in a positive way ..do something special for yourself. youll feel better and that will make you shine again !!!!
2007-08-22 05:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by sacpkrwd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first rule of thumb dont' date the boss or anyone you are working with. now you need to run the other way and get out of this mess before something happens and you are hurt. hes done with you and its time to stop. he maybe changing his mind and you need to get done with him first and keep it that way.
2007-08-22 00:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him b4 he dumps you! he has got wat he wanted and isnt interested in you anymore. i bet he does this all the time!get out and hold your head up and be more cautious next time
2007-08-22 05:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by commando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋