my question is should i forgave him or not
2007-08-13 23:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you know if you can forgive him. Is he worth it? Think long and hard about taking him back - you only get one life and you need to be happy in it. Good luck.
2007-08-14 00:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know, how he treated you is who he is, no forgiving will ever change that. Try and think back of all the other times he has asked for your forgiveness and you have forgiven him, what happened after that, did he continue to do all the things he did before you forgave him? I bet he did, and my guess is he still will. Your boyfriends morals and values are not where they should be so what is to prevent him from cheating again? He is only sorry he got caught.
2007-08-14 09:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy, you haven't said what he did. With that in mind, I can only assume he was somehow abusive to you in some way or an another, either verbally, mentally or physically.
When a guy begs, that is NOT a good thing. If he has been treating you bad in the past, my advice would be to move on. You can forgive, but it is so much harder to forget. He may appear nice at first and apologetic, but old habits are hard to break. Move on with your life and good luck!
2007-08-14 00:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sympathies for what u tolerated. Plz remember that this vicious cycle of psychological abuse never ends. Fifteen days of the month , he will dote on u, the next ten, he will put u down publicly (if he is a cyclical abuser). One day he will hit u blue in u blaming u for all shortcomings n the next four days he will try to offer an exotic getaway leading u actuaqlly to believe that u were harsh n judgemental throughout, spare ur self respect this oe time for ur sake.
2007-08-14 00:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-12 07:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what he did ? look if you see that he has changed his ways then its really up to you whether you give him a second chance or not but you have to keep in mind that it will be hard to ever trust him, that you will always be questioning evreything, is he reallly worth taking backl,,,,, so many questions so few answers!.....at the end of the day its soley up to you. Its going to be your heart that your putting on the line.
2007-08-14 00:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasons and problems between you before you split up will still be there if you get back together again. You have to ask yourself if you want to go back to that. You were strong enough to get yourself out of that situation, dont go back unless your 100% sure its is what you want and you have no doubts. Personally I wouldnt go back.
2007-08-14 00:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes forgive him. But you will never be able to trust him again and when i mean forgive him i mean forgive him then move on with your life don't even think of lettin ghim back into your life.
2007-08-14 00:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think of how your life when youre with him... were you happy or miserable? if the answer is happy, then maybe you can forgive him but with what you said that he has been treating you bad then think a million times if you want to go back to that situation again and be miserable again.
2007-08-14 00:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too vague, if he treated you badly by bullying you, hitting, cheating or lying or anything bad like that then he is loser scum and you dont say who broke up with who. Dont let him win you back, most guys like to get the girl back for one last time and is most likely wanting to see how far he is in control and can push you.
2007-08-14 00:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋