Women, how would you take this?

Question

My ex and I broke up over a while back, silly family dispute, now that the dust has settled and hoping she has calmed down, I sent her message to ask of she wants to go on holidays as a birthday treat? how do you think she will take this, fact is I am following my heart and not my head.

Answer 1

idk 2 ways
1. think that we made a mistake n come back to u
2. think that breakin up was the best thing for her

i hope it is number 1
good luck
i hope that everything works out for u 2!! :)

Answer 2

When your into them their not into you. I use that as a guide. You sound like the needy one or she would be all over you. Emotions are filled inside us or we are a drain on others when we look to them. Maybe this is a fair example. You love a flower. You don't expect anything from it, you already got the joy. If you give love and want something back, that's more like a business arrangement. That's unconditional love. If they come to you, they must be full or they will drain you. Each has his own joy. Two adults, not needy, but enjoying ones company. Men are usually sexually needy because they are emotionally running on empty. If your kind to her she'll come to you if she's interested. My take is that she only wanted to prove you weren't for her or hoped that you had changed but you hadn't or both, people can have mixed and contradictory feelings. Oh, the answer of course is to get some good simple info on love and emotions if you are going to play with it. Most people are run by emotions because they don't have basic info about them. We usually think we're being rational, but that's a joke.