2007-08-13 22:43:51 · 22 answers · asked by samrat ashok 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not a question of it being good or bad that your gf is elder than you. Its the feelings that matter most in a relationship. Age is just a number. After all, as the well known saying goes - age is in the minds......you are as old as your heart feels..... so all this does not matter...... if the 2 of you love each other and understand and respect each other, thats all that matters and should be taken in to consideration. forget the rest and be happy.
2007-08-13 22:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if the girlfrien elder than me.It will be mere helpful with lot of knowledge with the girlfriend is elder than me.Kasturi Ghandhi was elder than Mahatma Gandhi ,Anjali Tendulkar is elderthan Little Master. If They manage their Marriage life happy then lot of person also will be happy .
2007-08-14 05:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not bad cauzz in love nobody thinks that she/he is elder or small u only know that u love her and u do anything for her.
2007-08-14 05:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by sulemanjack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really shouldn't matter if you care for her and she cares for you in the same way. Older women tend to be more mature about relationships. Its a good experience for a younger guy. However, it does matter if the woman is MUCH older than the guy (by ten years or so). But that's mainly up to you to decide.
2007-08-14 05:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Afrosamurai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's bad and it doesn't have to really matter that much. my gf is 7 years older than me (i'm 30, she's 37) and it's barely been a factor at all. i feel like i can relate to her better than almost anyone i've ever known, we understand each other and are great friends. we're highly attracted to one another. kissing, touching, sex and making out is 100 times better with her than i ever experienced with other girls.
aside from the age difference, we come from different countries and had vastly different backgrounds that we grew up in. but i've never had this kind of connection with anyone. sometimes she likes to refer to me as her "little boy" and that's pretty much the only time we acknowledge our age difference. if anything, she looks alot better for her age than i do for mine. it's not that noticable that she's vastly older than me.
2007-08-14 06:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by David F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all in frienship or marriage age does not matter. What matters most is love and care, so long as you can understand yourselfs then life is extremely nive whether old or young.
2007-08-14 05:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by OCHIENG B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is neither good nor bad. if u see history many great personalities had their girlfriend older than themselves e.g. shakespere,the hindi poet nirala and many others.
2007-08-15 12:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)its all about the society in which you live
2) but the thing is that they understand themselves verymuch
3) they should share their sorrows&happiness
4) they should be practical
5) their friendship must be existing one
6) must be caring
thankyou
2007-08-14 05:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by UNNIKRISHNAN K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much older and if they genuinely love each other.
2007-08-14 05:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like it, you do it. It's neither good nor bad.
2007-08-14 07:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by chitha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋