Meeting Number 1 (2 strangers meeting): 3 hour date - getting along great, touching of each other on the arm. Peck on the cheek goodbye.
Meeting Number 2 1 week later: Peck on the cheek hello, another long date, more arm touching and holding legs, quick kiss on the lips and hug goodbye.
Meeting Number 3 1 week later: Peck on the cheek and hug hello, another long date, arms around each other, kiss goodbye, no tongue, but getting closer!
Is it going to happen next time?! Does he like her by not forcing things quickly, should she make more of a move?
Thoughts?
2007-08-13 22:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by dogcazza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like your "dating timeline" and no, the situation and chain of events are not strange.
It's common depending on your stage in life and the personalities of the two people. My dating timeline was similar to yours in my first few relationships, but as I talked to more girls, went more places, and my life became busy with friends and "adventure", I didn't wait for weeks to become more affectionate. I wish I would have because I would've gotten to know the girl more and maybe I would've found my soulmate or developed a REAL relationship.
When you move fast, you miss out on a lot of things and really don't get the chance to enjoy the "newness" of the romance or the relationship.
Don't think about the physical aspect of it so much. Try to focus on getting to know each other and having good conversations. If you focus on the physical too much, then that's all it will be. And YOU may get bored after awhile - after you finally see where the physical interaction leads. Or, he may get bored if that's all the relationship has to offer. Try to please each other mentally and emotionally and your relationship will be a whole lot better off. I'm serious.
2007-08-13 22:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could he be a virgin? And not know where to go after so he is taking it slow? I still say talk to him. NO point asking us how he feels when you could just ask him. It amazes me how many people turn to strangers to get answers to questions that are right under there noses. I mean really whats the point to worrying about a relationship with no open communication? Unless it is purely sexual, which this clearly isn't.
2007-08-14 05:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by tahitisummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going slowly is not a bad thing, it shows respect for her and it enables him to gauge what she likes and doesnt like before he eventually makes his move, be ready and responsive. This could be the making of a great relationship.
2007-08-14 05:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called respect. He is trying to let you get to know each other before he moves in for the sex. Enjoy it. Most guys just try to jump into bed with you instead of romancing you for awhile!! Sounds nice to me!!!
2007-08-14 05:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can do either based on how comfortable she feels. He sounds like a respectable guy....but taking it slow is never a bad thing.
2007-08-14 05:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Randolph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes her and that is making him to force things quickly.
But she should not encourage him..
Becas relations made quick will break quick too
2007-08-14 05:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by ASH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're safe to make a move ;)
2007-08-14 05:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by LifeLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have no religous beliefs then yes its wierd. why dont you wanna kiss him yet! ahhhhhhh!
2007-08-14 05:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember its good to talk,,,,,,,,
2007-08-14 05:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by Bio Hazard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not strange
2007-08-14 05:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋