friend i want to get married but i m very afraid in chosing my bride. so can u suggest what qualities she should have and how can i check those qualities before getting married to her.
2007-08-13 21:43:23 · 24 answers · asked by alifetimefriend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Someone that is not only your lover but your best friend as your wife wil be your long life companion. So you will want to enjoy talking to her and having someone that is supportive of you a 100%.
Your wife should be understanding, be able to communicate her needs and wants to you and be able to see your point of view as you must also be able to see hers.
You will want someone that will stick with you through the hard times not just the good. You should pick a wife with an even temperment you don't want someone that loses her patience and temper at you or you will always be fighting.
Someone that is house proud and keeps the house clean not dirty and untidy. A woman that is willing to cook for you and any future kids. You don't want to have to live on frozen food/takeways.
Your wife should share your values and beliefs about marriage and rasing children, religion, money. Also it's import she has the same goals and plans in life as you and is not going to hold you back in what you want to do in life.
Good luck!
2007-08-13 23:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse should have the following qualities:-
1. The financial status of her family should be below that of your family.
2. Her height should be less than that of you.
3. She should not be more fair than you.
4. Her ancestry should be good.
Above all you should have best qualities required for a husband. These are the qualities usually required for a happy married life.
2007-08-14 04:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Basheer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Smart, Funny, Kind, Compassionate, LOYAL, Honest, Loving and posesses a good range of patience. Someone also who has morals and has strong family values. I'm sure you'd like someone pleasing to your eyes too. Pretty but honestly looks can fade over time.
Most of all it has to be someone YOU love to be around. Usually your personalities will mesh well--you'll just KNOW. I know with my Fiance & I balance one another perfectly. He's quiet...I'm outgoing... He's laid back...I'm a busy body...you catch the drift. We bring out the best in eachother and learn from one another. That's the most important thing to me.
GOOD LUCK! :)
2007-08-14 08:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest, independent, loving, caring, respectful, good values...
The best qualities will come out in a person if you put in a few of your own!
And remember, no one is perfect... you just need someone who if perfect for you.
Someone that you can work well with and be with everyday without a doubt.
2007-08-14 07:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Renn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to check her qualities which is an impossible task, you insist on proper horoscope-matching. This has more probability of fetching you a good bride according to your destiny.
2007-08-14 05:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Devarat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the things that make you a good catch ...you would probably want someone who has the same values and qualities as you do....chances are if you are honest, loyal caring, compassionate, smart, funny, you would probably want those same things in your partner. you would want to be able to trust her and know that when she was away from you she would handle herself as if you where there standing right beside her... also you should love her...and she should love you and you should both have total respect for each other
2007-08-14 04:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important quality for a bride to have is a "good husband".
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2007-08-14 04:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who is sincere and loves you the same way you do. For more precise qualities, try to ask yourself what kind of person you like to be with or feel confortable with. Well, each and everyone has their own views!
2007-08-14 04:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by ejilarasie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
find a girl you can live with for the rest of your life, as she is now. If you have expectations of how a girl should (but doesn't currently) act, you won't be happy. Whoever you choose, make sure that you can love her without asking her to change anything for you.
2007-08-14 05:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by Columcille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are kind,understanding,loving and willing to compromise then doesnt matter whom you marry..u'll always be happy..u know there is no way to know for "sure" that the one u are going to marry is the perfect one or not..but u can be sure that if "u" are perfect then ur marriage is bound to succeed..so all the very best!!
2007-08-14 05:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by HK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋