phone sucks he cant call. I love you sweetheart.good night. hugs and kisses. We just got back together last month after being broken up for 3 months.He has never cheated on me before though. However he just got a new phone and I know the reception in his new place sucks. I texted him back it sucks that your new phone is broken...dont worry its not a problem though. Is that ok? I dont think he would play me after trying so hard to get me back. Also I was in LA to do some modeling a week ago and two of the days I was there he wouldnt answer his phone and I left bc I was mad and flew back home. When I was on the plane he called and said what were my messages for he was sick and had meningitis. Do you think I am just flipping out because this is my first long distance relationship and he shattered my trust before or do his excuses sound lame and what should I do?
Please help.
2007-08-13 21:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by Heartbroken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-13 21:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through this right now. He shattered my trust now I question any and everything. You, (like myself), have a decision that you need to make. Do you want to continue a long distance relationship where there is no trust? It is hard enough wondering "who is he talking to.. what is he doing" It isn't fair to you (or me) to have to worry about a man that "loves and cares about me so much." It has been a few months for me and I have more trust for him than I thought I would now and for the most part, I don't have any issues. BUT I do get those moments where that "scorned woman" sneaks her little voice in. I want to say that he isn't doing anything but the only way to know that for sure is to be with him everyday. Seeing that we live 24 hours apart driving, it isn't possible.
Again, you have to look in your heart. Is this man someone you are willing to fight with and fight for to make your relationship work? Is this man someone you can honestly see in your future? If there is any doubt, you might need to take a look at the relationship. Have an open conversation where you talk and say EXACTLY what's on your mind and how you feel regardless if feelings get hurt or not. Being honest with yourself and communicating with him is part of the answers.
Sorry I rambled. I hope it helps.
2007-08-13 21:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you doing long distance if you are beautiful model? dont u want ur man around to have dinner and hang out on weekend or spend the night?
And why the hell would he not want u to come take care of him if he were sick. Isnt that what being in love is about?
And why did you not stay at his house?
It all sounds very distant and strange to me. Like why would he not want to spend every minute with you when you were in town from outta town? But u know him and yourself better then I do.
ps if you really wanna know go onto Cheaters!!!!!!! U better write me if you go on! I love that show.
2007-08-13 21:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience if you can send and receive text messages there is no reason you wouldn't be able to make a phone call. Sounds like lame excuses to me but I don't know the guy personally.
2007-08-13 21:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 04:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he could possibly be making excuses. If he knew you were in L.A. and didn't try to contact you that seems very strange. I would say if you have nagging suspicions something may be going on go with that women are rarely ever wrong when it comes to those feelings.
2007-08-13 21:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by cjs23navy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now now. He is probably feeling all weird, too since his girlfriend is a MODEL!!! Who wouldn't have self-esteem issues, you tell me. What you should do is calmly talk to him when you next see him , all these burning questions you have posted on Yahoo. And oh, if you can share his Yahoo nick, I would GLADLY pinpoint to him THIS question so he gets to do some real THINKING!
2007-08-13 21:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by joulsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all if your his girlfriend and he was sick and you live far away you could have came to take care of him unless he has something to hide.Just be carfeul I could be wrong but I wouldnt trust that i was sick business.why didnt you stay with him anyways while you were there if you are really his girlfriend
2007-08-13 21:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say this guy "shattered my trust before". Your question is if I think "do his excuses sound lame". Yeah, I sure do.
How about you?
2007-08-13 21:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your eyes open. He could be telling the truth, but you just never know. If he is cheating he will slip up eventually.
2007-08-13 21:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure visit him to know what he is doing. Don´t tell that you are going there. Just simply surprise him.
2007-08-13 21:36:41 · answer #11 · answered by Buggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋