ok, so like on myspace i have pictures of when i was skinnier
but now i have gained wait and hot guys that i talk to (i know them through friends its not some random creep) i am afraid that when we meet in person they won't like me because i am fat
my question is
should i get new myspace pics or should i stop talking to hott guys
i need advice!!!!
2007-08-13 20:46:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm lol...if they r expecting to see what they see on ur myspace u should put new pics up...thats what happened to a friend of mine when i introduced her to one of my guy friends...he was totally turned off bcuz she looked nuthing like she did on her profile all her pics were like 2 yrs ago and the new ones she only took from the neck up....so yeah i would just change the photos...
2007-08-13 20:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chase has my ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, decide whether you are "fat" or just a bit heavier than you were when you put those photos there. Take some more photos the same as the originals, and compare them. If they are too different, you have two choices -
1) Be honest about it and post the new photos, or
2) Lose some weight, and let everyone know that you are.
There could also be the fact that you are being too critical of yourself, in which case I suggest you post both sets on your myspace, and ask us here to judge for you. We are probably the most unbiased mob of ratbags you'll ever come across, so you can believe what we say, and take the appropriate action.
2007-08-14 04:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe the question is not what you look like, but what it says about you liying to people to gain their attention.
How would you like it, if you fell for someone only to discover that this person has lied to you?
It does say that you are not trustworthy, a liar, probably insecure, and some might even think a psycho!
So, either do not put any pic at all, and do only select the people you want to show your real face too, or put an update picture of your self.
How do you think you're going to feel if that hot guy turns up,takes one look at you and just leave?
He would have all the right to do so because you lied to him in the first place.
It's like those guys who pretend to be 15 when they are 40 and lure poor teenagers in meeting them. Do you get my point?
You are who you are and if you can't accept it, then there's no way you are going to be able to convince someone else to.
The right person will like you for who you are babe.
Having said that, if you are uncomfortable with your weight, then baby do something about it.
Men don't like skinny women, but I don't think they like obese or fat ones either.
You need to reach a size so that you can wear other things than baggy clothes, and show your feminity. Ok.
Good luck sweetheart.xxxx
2007-08-14 03:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to change yourself? Don't put yourself down because you think they will reject you because your different from your pics now. They should want to meet you because they like talking to you not because they like your looks. Don't waste your time with shallow people like that. Change up your pics a bit, put some old ones and some new ones...like a before and after lol. Be confident! Talk to who you want to, and if they talk back to you then you know they like you for you. And if not, then move on, don't waste your time on them.
~Hope this helps!
2007-08-14 04:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jade_Fer_Sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't worry about it. Many people put pics on myspace that do not look like how they really are. If you have talk to them for awhile and they are still talking to you, then they probably like you cuz of your attitude. but you should put pics of how you look now so you wont have to worry about it anymore.
2007-08-14 03:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by erick2881 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same feeling, and I turned out to be wrong. I was worrying for nothing. He thinks I'm beautiful just the way I am and he's good looking. Give them a shot :D
2007-08-14 03:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Temari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take this with the affection it is sent.
The # 1 problem women have is emotionally overriding their own good sense.
UPDATE YOUR PICS!!!
If this doesn't allow you to attract 'hot' guys, lower your standards or lose the weight.
And the answer to your next question is:
Eat less, move more.
2007-08-14 04:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should change your pictures. let them see what u really look like and if they dont still wanna talk to u screw them. dont stop talkin to hott guys ethier let them make the choice to stop talking to u if they dont like what they c.
2007-08-14 03:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by *Young & Beautiful* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no new pics, just use the ones you got as a motivator to shed the pounds. don't just accept being overweight. if you put new picks on then you have.
2007-08-14 03:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new pics and if they don't like what they see, screw them they shouldn't be worried so much about looks anyway.
2007-08-14 03:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by kibey2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋