though my gf loves me a lot she also loves her parents much more, so she doesn't want to marry me against their wish so we have decided to not to marry but thing is we are not able to stay away from each other.. what should i do ??
2007-08-13 19:47:47 · 11 answers · asked by prashant g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
marry her parents... sorry but it seems like shes not going to budge, and thats sad that she can't pick u over her parents. If you really have that deep of feelings for her, then tell her she has to pick you, over her parents wishes, or else obviously you will never marry. maybe you should try and get to know that parents, spend time, etc? every situation is different, but still it seems wrong that she would follow her parents instruction rather than her heart.
2007-08-13 19:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to meet her parents and gain their love.
The parents are probably worried about their daughter and want to protect her.If you love the girl you should try to please her parents too ,,.if they're happy then she's happy and you're happy too.
So since you love her so much buy a nice gift for the parents and go to their house,tell them that you love their daughter and promise you'll love her and take care of her always.tell them that you wish for them to be happy too and you'd like their approval and that you'll be honored if they accepted you as a son in law.
You know parents always look for assurance so if you love her make them happy to win her.
Good luck .Invite us to the wedding
2007-08-13 19:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) it doesn't sound like you are old enough OR READY to get married.
2) Many couples don't have their parents blessing. (its ok)
3) If she doesnt want t marry you.. cut your losses, there are plenty of brides in china waiting for VISAs.
2007-08-14 01:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Silac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*%$@ her parents. if she doesnt love you enough to marry you anyway, then you got a problem. shes an adult, she should be able to make her own decisions by now
2007-08-13 21:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her parents to dinner and ask them for they're permission. i suggest you have the ring with you it shows her parents your commitment. Also pick up the check it shows you can provide for they're little girl. Good Luck.
2007-08-14 02:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents to go to her family with a formal proposal. If they accept, you have nothing to worry about, right?
2007-08-13 19:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not really given enough info for good advice. Probably best for you to move on, and find someone else to spend your life with.
2007-08-13 19:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her parents about your marriage & if they definetly love there daughter,they will accept your proposal.
2007-08-13 19:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by leaves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that your with her and not her parents.... she has her own mind.. and if she cant think for herself then you should tell her bye bye....
2007-08-13 19:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by yes it's me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe wait until your both of age
2007-08-13 19:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋