So two of my co-workers have a sexual relationship going on. The girl has a fiance and puts up this innocent act. The guy is single but he is such a player. I found out from other workers who said they go to hotels after work and he has pictures of her and him. Funny thing is he fiance comes to the job all the time and he has no idea. The other day i just wanted to say yo ya girl is boning dude over here but i know that is not any of my business. Anywho whether or not she is a nice girl or if she brought it upon herself do you think she deserves to know that he is telling everyone and that he is also showing pictures.
2007-08-13 19:21:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're in a tough position...I think you should just keep to yourself and not say anything only because you don't want to be dragged into their drama. I totally understand your concern for wanting to tell her that the guy she's having the affair with is telling everyone what they did and showing them pictures...that's just not right, but she is engaged and she owes it to herself to be honest with herself and her fiance. Good luck!
2007-08-13 19:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Je t'aime Paris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES she deserves to know that he is showing pics around the workplace! YES it is your place to tell her.
NO it is NOT your place to tell her fiance about the two of them.
If you are friends with this girl, tell her what a trouser snake the guy she is boning at work is, tell her what he is doing and warn her about what she stands to lose. That's all you can do.
2007-08-13 19:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T tell her fiance, u don't wanna push urself into trouble with different ppl..
talk to her about the guy showing her pix and telling everyone. if she responds well, give her ur piece of advice about having a fiance and that the guy is a player..
good luck :]
2007-08-13 19:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why cause yourself a big headache in the workplace? Either the fiance will find out, or she will find out what the guy is doing sooner or later, and you will get to laugh at the fallout!!!
2007-08-13 19:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, if you want a nice working enviroment, and you want peace. Her fiance will eventually find out and obviously everyone knows what that guy is all about.
2007-08-13 19:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the fiance.
2007-08-13 19:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly you have got mentioned "do no longer you have paintings to do?" at cases while human beings question me something this is obviously none of their employer i will say " And why do you ask?" it continually stops them lifeless of their tracks and keeps my employer my employer. get exhilaration from the Chrismas track.Merry Christmas
2016-12-13 06:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her... she needs to know what is being said about her...
as far as the fiance goes, it is not ur place...
2007-08-13 19:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the fiancee. I would like to know.
2007-08-13 19:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one thing to say to you. None of your business
2007-08-13 19:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋