is it strange that im 14 and want kids... people tell me at school that ide make a great mother some day adn i was pratically my cousins twin girls mother. and im always watching theshows on ( TLC) like bringing home baby and stuff...
2007-08-13 19:04:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
just so yo uknwo ive never had sex im still a virgin and plan to be fo ra long long time i just want kids or just to be around one everyday and me being th eon eto take care of her ( or him )
2007-08-13 19:29:24 · update #1
It's not strange, but it is foolish. Alot of girls your age think they can handle anything, even having children. The fact of the matter is, girls your age shouldn't even be considering having sex! Taking care of a child and parenting are two different things! The difference is, you can always give someone else's child back to them, but when it's yours...
I had my son when I was 21, and I had read everything I could find in books and online, and talked to every parent I knew, including my own, about what to expect. I thought I was ready for anything that could come my way by the time my son was wrong. Well, I've decided that no matter who you are or how much you've planned, you're never ready for your first child.
You should wait until you are married to even consider the thought of getting pregnant, or at least wait until you are out of highschool!
2007-08-13 19:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by ChaoticKimmy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not strange, sounds like you have good maternal instincts.
Don't let those instincts make you do something stupid like having a baby while you are still a kid yourself.
Finish your education, find a nice young man, marry and have a house full of kids.
Doc
2007-08-14 02:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not strange but please for the sake of your future children atleast get high school done. that way you can at least get a decent job, remember education means more pay and you need money to support your kids and family.
2007-08-14 02:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by corrick_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, BUT dont have a baby til your mature, out of school, and alt least engaged....dont be stupid
2007-08-14 02:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋