My ex and I have been apart since Feb. The break up was harsh on me, I dealt with it, respected her decision for time apart. I rediscovered who I was and assorted my priorities.
During the time off we only chatted 3 times on the phone, 1st two, she was drunk dialing, but we didnt mention the relationship at all. Just recently, the 3rd time we had a great conversation.We talked about everything respectfully, and both agreed that we still cared for another and will always love eachother.She inveted to her bros baby shower, I told her I wasnt sure, but i still went ahead and she was surprised. i kept my distance during the shower, and caught up wth the family and her of course. kept everything very casual, and obvious that my life was great! family was glad to see me and Im sure she was too. uncles and Aunts were ofcourse gesturing if we were back, or making jokes. we both laughed.and kept our distance. she walked me out, gave a long big hug, and thanked her for the invitation...
2007-08-13 16:47:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
The only clue to the success or failure of your relationship is in the part where you mentioned she was "drunk dialing." Drinking can be part of a healthy relationship, but drunkenness cannot be. If your problems started during drinking episodes, only total sobriety will correct them. That may sound strident, but one family after another has had this experience. If you want the difficulties to continue for a long time, ignore this advice, and your voice will be added to the rest. Best of luck to you.
2007-08-13 17:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. Well it sounds to me like both of you still have some type of feelings for each other. You should just keep on re-building your friendship with her and then maybe try to start again from there. But you guys are most definitely gonna have a positive relationship.
2007-08-14 00:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this is the case than according to me both of you are now missing each other and have discovered finally that you love each other a lot, so try to get together again.
2007-08-13 23:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by pyarhai2mse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing I can say because there is no question here. What is it you'd like to know? Should you get back together? Sounds like you need to keep on like you are and see what's up with her.
Sorry I can't be of more help but you didn't really ask a question.
2007-08-13 23:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And thennnnnnn??? will we ever hear the end of the novel???
It sounds like you are both very immature and act on impulse.Please keep away for 1 year and then let us know
2007-08-13 23:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by The_last_Amazona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋