what should i do to keep my boyfriend loving me?
2007-08-13 15:42:22 · 13 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, I think sometimes - you can do everything right, and things still fall apart. I'd say, just try to show him that you appreciate him. If he's a good (smart) guy, he'll stick around.
2007-08-13 15:48:33
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Lets be honest here dear ... if you do everything in your power to take care and love your man there is always some1 out there better in some way or the other. You could be the best in bed the greatest cook ... if he wants to leave your bed for a next woman's love you can't stop him. Now what you can do is to get a man that loves and respects you as much as you love and respect him ... and want to keep you as bad as you want to keep him. Love and care for him the way you can don't go over board my dear ... it's the simple things that will be well appreciated. Now i am not saying that the sex is not to be good!
2007-08-13 16:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Keep doing whatever you have been that makes him love you, add in some new things every once and a while, and don't be too clingy.
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2.) Realize that he has his own feelings and may eventually fall out of love with you, or you with him. Things pass. If he says it's done, it's done - don't try and "keep" him.
2007-08-13 15:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Larousse* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't make him love you. You just have to be yourself, but be open to change, and honest with him. Relationships are complicated, there is no single thing you can do to make it work. It sounds like you should start by apologizing for something you have done, or working on an insecurity problem.
2007-08-13 16:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by The Seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant keep or make someone love you.they love you for their own reason.it could be the way your eyes look when you see him,or the smile on your face.it could be something like the way you look when you think no one is watching and you let your hair down.the other person loves you for many reason but not for just one reason or another.they love who you are not what you are.its not what you can give them,its something they feel on the inside in their heart .theres no way to keep someones love ,then to be who you are.they will either love you or they wont.
2007-08-13 15:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just gotta be yourself---a person has to like you for what you are--if you have to jump thru hoops to keep someone, maybe he wasnt meant to be in the first place.
You do need to do nice things for your other and show your special one respect---but, love has to be a two-way street. If he's your guy, he'll be around.
2007-08-13 15:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Obviously he liked YOU enough to start going out with you, so just keep on being good to him, being exactly the person he fell in love with.
Good luck!
2007-08-13 15:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do to MAKE someone love you. Be yourself always and if that isn't enough, then it isn't love and you don't want someone who doesn't love you just the way you are,now do you?
2007-08-13 16:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romantic stuff.......tell him you love him all the time, do sweet things out of no where like jump in the shower with him...
Actually it depends how old you are!
Good luck
2007-08-13 15:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him.
If that's not enough, then it's good bye.
2007-08-13 15:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋