How old were you when you had your first girlfriend? I'm really nice but I don't really talk to girls at school or have any girls as friends. But I want a girlfriend? Is this sad? Or do I have nothing to worry about. I don't want to die a virgin!!
2007-08-13 15:15:18 · 22 answers · asked by Wizard lvl 99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lmfao thats pretty sad i wont lie. try being more social its the only way youre gonna meet people.
2007-08-13 15:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, not if you've been genuine/honest with yourself, but haven't been ready or are waiting until marriage/the right person. I'd rather be with a cute, kind male virgin than a creep. Just let it be natural, don't be that "creepy" guy at the bar who's trying to pick up anybody. Maybe a female friend could set you up with somebody ( a friend of hers) if you're shy. A good boyfriend is also a good friend, and your mutual friend would be be able to tell what you're both looking for. If you are feeling desperate for sex, you could hire a prostitute to teach you "the ropes", and make you feel more at ease.
2007-08-13 22:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by joie_du_cor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be sad if you were 30 years old and never had a girlfriend. Sounds like you are a good decent person and not one to just "hop into it with any ol' person". There IS a girl out there...just like you. My only advice is that you will need to be a bit more open to talking with new people that you meet and not fear asking someone out to a movie or to an amusement park or something. Remember...the best wives start out as girlfriends that start out as FRIENDS first. Good luck. I hope you find your soulmate.
2007-08-13 22:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lavanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 23 my first time. I now have 2 kids and I never worried about stuff like that. Burning out or fading away are not the only two choices you have. Chill, get a hobby and be a man, then you will be able to handle a woman.
2007-08-13 22:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Hielodrive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not sad, what is the rush. You are still young, where is it written that you have to get laid at or before a certain age. You have nothing to worry about. Everything comes in due time. Patience is a virtue.
2007-08-13 22:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you probably won't die a virgin. But lots of us guys were into our 20's before getting laid the first time. ( lots of guys brag about it, but don't, we find out later).
BTW, you can have a g/f without getting laid! Find a girl who will talk with you, and go places with you.
2007-08-13 22:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww You shouldnt think it is Sad cause it isnt... I had my first Boyfriend when i was like 12 but thats just kitty Love But when you get older such as your age thats the real thing when you date and ready to settle down and get married and love her and have a baby with her all that stuff. Your lucky that you didnt date when you were younger because it saved you years of pain when they break up with you so concider yourself lucky... Wait and you will find that perfect one Hun!
2007-08-13 22:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being more approachable... maybe get a mini makeover. put on some nice fitting pants and a plain shirt, make sure you smell really good and shave, and do something kinda nice with your hair. then go out with some guy friends and just talk to girls. Try to get to know more girls at work and at school. Just being friendly and honest will work .
2007-08-13 22:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex for the sake of having sex, you will feel terrible. Just wait until the right person is in your life. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Be proud. So many people wish they were in your shoes.
2007-08-13 22:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by vinolover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isnt sad you have your whole life ahead of you-you have plenty of time for girlfriends-right now just enjoy yourself and have fun-you wont die a virgin!!
2007-08-13 22:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by niki g 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well thats not sad i was 13. And i got laid at 14.
2007-08-13 22:21:02 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Kelsi♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋