okay so ive been with this guy for seven months and he thinks that im cheating on him, which im not, and he says that if i come clean he'll forgive me. So heres my dilama, do i make up a story and take it from there or say **** it and dump him, I really love this guy but idk, HELP!!
2007-08-13 14:54:00 · 17 answers · asked by tinybitch726 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why admit to something if you did not do it? just be honest. if he does not believe you, tell him he can leave if he wants but it would be his loss, since you have not cheated.
2007-08-13 15:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont make up a story and say that you cheated! if you havent cheated, then he's going to have to accept the truth! Dont lower yourself for him! And its most likely a trap!! He'll convince you and you'll tell him you cheated and then he'll break up with you and tell you "i knew it!" and then you'll look like the cheater!! So dont do it! If he just seriously cant believe you, then there's obviously not much trust there! So dump him and find someone who will trust you because you obviously havent done anything to be mistrusted!
2007-08-13 15:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, Forest, Run!!! No matter what he says, men cannot accept a woman cheating on them. They are not wired that way. It sounds like he may want to leave you but wants to make sure it's not his fault, so he doesn't look like the bad guy.
Tell him one last time that you are not cheating on him. If he refuses to believe it, tell him it's been fun. Then you go find someone that trusts you. It's a heck of a lot easier.
2007-08-13 15:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, if u dont, than tell him. look him streight into the eyes and tell him that u dont, if u must cry, let it go. tell him u love him. BUT DO NOT MAKE UP A STORY! be nice to him, ask him why he thinks that u r cheating on him and if there is, explain him why things happen but be honest and tell him that you are NOT cheating on him because u dont like anyone else in the whole universe.
2007-08-13 15:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, there are possibles reasons for his behavour, what i think is that he wants to invent a silly excuse so he can go and date someone else. however, if u make up a story, that means that u really dont like him cuz u are still lying to him, the only thing u can do is talk things right with him, really, if u two loved each other, hed b trusting u....
2007-08-13 15:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to satisfy him, if he doesn't believe you then he probably has a guilty conscience for something he's done. I had a bf that was always worried about who i was with and what i was doind only because he had secrets of his own and nothing eats at you more than a guilty conscience. It's definetly not worth you having to stress over his trust issues.
2007-08-13 15:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by ashanti_crawford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth and do your best to gain his trust. He may have had a girlfriend in the past cheat on him or something. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Give it time.
2007-08-13 15:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by TennesseeGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow same thing happend to me not to long ago but mine didnt give me a chance he broke my heart. tell him that if you were cheating on him that you would tell him...ask him what makes him think that. and say that you would never do that. and you love him dearly. tell him that and if he still doesnt belive you then show him that your disapointed in him...dont break up with him if you love him though. cause just show him that your disapointed in him and he will eventually get it through his head and belive you...that is what i think
2007-08-13 15:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by bshherica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not cheating then why make up a story to try & please him. If he can't trust you then maybe you should tell him to move on. He is not worth you making yourself look bad to keep him.
2007-08-13 15:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you do that makes him think you're cheating on him? Ask him. Dont make up a story. Stay honost.
2007-08-13 14:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by LI Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋