2007-08-13 14:43:07 · 28 answers · asked by Martin B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this might be the best advice youv ever gotten...all a girl wants out of a guy on the first date is to feel special...tell her nice things about her that make her face light up...dont spend the whole time talking about yourself because girls dont like that...they like to feel like someone cares about them and that they are better then most girls...just let her know that and ur in
2007-08-13 14:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
K....I'm obviously a girl...check the icon.
My advice on this question is to find out what she likes. Many girls have many different personalities. Most girls want the date to be romantic, and some girls want a kiss. Have you ever seen Hitch? Most of the stuff in that movie is true, but what girls want out of a date can vary. I personally prefer a romantic date, possibly down by the beach and a kiss at either the end or the middle, or if i enjoy the date, both. I can tell you right now though, most girls don't want sex on the first date. Some girls do. Usually if she invites you in, she either wants sex or she just wants to talk more. this is very awkward for me, so I'm going to stop now. If you want more advice from me, e-mail me! I LOVE giving advice!
2007-08-13 21:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl, I'm going to answer this on a personal level.
On a 1st date i would want to go on a simple date, not so romantic but not so plain. Maybe dinner and a movie or mini golfing. but when any wear open doors, tell her she looks beautiful, not hot , most girls don't like being called hot. some do, but even if they do like it beautiful sounds more from the heart. always make the 1st move, a lot of girls are shy when making the 1st move so break the ice and maybe hold her hand or put your arm around her, or kiss her hand. make her feel special say you wouldn't want to be with anyone else, even if you're lying. be a gentleman, silvery isn't dead, only to very cocky stuck-up girls, to real, nice girls being treated like a lady is the best feeling.
i hoped this helped!!
2007-08-13 21:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, I girl just want to be entertain and have a good time. In the first date try to be a gentleman and give a good impression (dress nice and smell good). Make her feel comfortable with you. Good luck!
2007-08-13 21:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Martin, u can start with honesty. I don't know how old u r, but there r different levels. For example, if u r a teenager, or young adult honesty, communication, b a gentleman and don't try 2 get in her pants!!! They like respect.
2007-08-13 21:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
they want you to ask questions not like to many but if she asks you something randomly she normally wants you to ask her the same thing but she dose not just suddenly say "what ever she wants to tell you"
hug her when you first see her but don't kiss save that till the end of the date!!!
smile at her a lot!!!
make sure it seems like you are hearing her out!!! (don't just be like sure yup what ever kind a repeat her questions to answer her so she knows you are listening)
when you take her home or whatever hug her and when you are huging her kiss her on the side of the face keep holding her and if she smiles kiss her on the lips but if she looks confuzzed then just say bye and that you had a fun time (even if you did not)
Tell me what happends
I wish you luck
2007-08-13 21:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To get to know him and what he is all about. His likes and dislikes and his viewpoint on subjects. Grow up and think about other things when you are older. Learn to be polite, open doors, have good table manners and always be kind and respectful. You will be fine.........A good friend, you can never have too many of them.
2007-08-13 21:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by kimballama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want them to like me on the first day, I don't give a f*ck about what other people say, I would also want the guy to be freaky and flirty with me.
2007-08-13 21:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by xXxEpic VictoryxXx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Works.. Attention, dinner, romance
2007-08-13 21:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by SirSnoozeAlot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hold of her hand, look her in the eyes and tell her you had a great time. If she wants anything more she will make the move.
2007-08-13 21:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jason Warren, CEO 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋