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Question

are longdistiance relationships bad?

Answer 1

They can work, but it takes two very dedicated people who have a special bond from day one.

Answer 2

Not bad, but difficult. When you don't see someone for a long time, you idealize them. You remember all the good things, and nothing there to remind you of the bad things.

It also limits you. You forget there are other people out there and you stop dating as actively. You might just find someone else more special.

This is why I hate commited relationships in the first place. We tend to settle for mediocre instead of seeking the best.

Answer 3

Not bad if you can handle them but, better if you have another option. It is difficult to keep any relationship going if you don't have time to nuture it and make it grow. The more time you have to invest in it, the better the chances of seeing it work. If you have very limited time, it would make sense that you would be more involved with someone who could share with you and be with you. You can try it, but chances are that it will burn out in time due to lack of time and effort to put into this relationship.

Answer 4

depends on what you are in search of. if you do not want to be able to hold hands, snuggle, kiss or do other intimate things together then long distance relationships would work. relationships are base on each other filling the need for one another and closeness is something everyone desires. also accountability is not there so what they tell you is not always what they live to. there are a lot of things to consider thus choose wisely and carefully

Answer 5

Plain and simple: YES THEY ARE BAD! If you want to have a relationship with someone you need to be able to see them at the very least once a week. Without that you're nothing, even if talking is your thing.

Answer 6

No...but they rarely work and most people who've ever been in one, will say they wouldn't do it again (including myself).

Not worth the frustration and longing, unless the distance is only for a limited period of time.

Answer 7

Killers, believe me. The distance means you cant just squeeze em tight when you want to. Many a night I just wanted to be there, y'know even though we'd talk all day somedays...yeh you can talk..but if you step outta line there's very little you can do to reassure/reaffirm... and all they have to do is switch off their PC, basically your fkt.

Answer 8

depends. sometimes the distance makes you realize how much ur mate means to you. But sometimez it means u cant stand not having a person with you. so it depends. test it out and see. if u are really meant to be together then distance wont matter.

Answer 9

i think they are because you never see the person you only talk to them on the comp or phone...and people in long distance relationships are more likely to cheat

Answer 10

in some cases... mostly on movies or tv... they r romantic... but to me, they r kinda bad cuz the other person can be going out with sum1 where they live without u ever knowing cuz u nvr see them