if it is real wat is it like
only ppl who have expierenced
2007-08-13 14:20:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the stuff dreams are made of, so don't wake me up for a while.
2007-08-13 14:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Love is very real. It's not something the media made up.
Although, I think Valentine's Day is a little much because I feel love should be celebrated every day. I don't need a designated day to let my boyfriend know how much I adore him and how lucky I am to have him. Just my opinion, though.
I am in love with a wonderful man. He has gone out of his way to do things (that I didn't ask him to do) just to make me smile. He makes me feel so beautiful. He's always on my mind.
When you fall in love it's... Too amazing to describe. You feel it in their kiss and you can see it when you look into their eyes. You know that the two of you will be together through all the rough times and the great times. You find yourself smiling and giggling just thinking about them - which you will do often. I have caught myself sighing and leaning against the closed door after having a wonderful time with him (like they do in the movies). When I have a bad day and I miss him, if I just call him up, he makes everything better with just the sound of his voice.
It couldn't possibly be a movie thing.
=]
2007-08-13 21:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea OF Love is real. But not the kind you see in movies where everything is always perfect once they fall for eachother. No relationship is perfect 100% of the time. Every relationship has its ups and downs. And believe me, what you see in the movies of when the couple is having a heated argument and the guy just shuts her up by kissing her....TOTAL FAKE! You can get slapped for stuff like that =) Anyways, im in love at the current time. Things aren't always perfect, but love is where you can find compromise. Have fun with eachother, joke with eachother, cry with eachother, not afraid to show emotion with eachother. Love is knowing that no matter how many stupid things you do, they will always still be there for you (exceptions of cheating and stuff along those lines). Hope you find your true love! Take care!
2007-08-13 21:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Chaotic408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's real, but it can't be described because it's different for everyone. Sometimes you think it's love but it's really just your hormones. Still, when it actually does happen, you will know... and you will probably look back at past relationships and think "How could I ever have thought THAT was love?"
I had a few boyfriends when I was younger that I thought I was "in love" with - I became very emotionally attached to them earlier in the relationship and then things would end badly. When I met my fiance, that didn't happen at all... in fact, I tried to break up with him twice in the first month that we dated! Now I'm so grateful that we stayed together, because every year that we are together I find that I love him in more and new ways.
2007-08-13 21:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is very real and can be wonderful but you can't go into it thinking everything is like the movies. I have been blessed to have the love of my husband for the last 15 years but it has also taken a lot of work and understanding. You have to know that no one is perfect and be prepared to live with their faults as well as their virtues.
2007-08-13 21:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is real - but it's not the dreamy love you see in movies. Real love encompasses reality. Which basically means that you and your partner will both f*ck up from time to time, you'll both get on each other's nerves, you'll both make the other want to pull their hair out, etc etc... but at the end of the day, you come back to each other because you know deep down there's no one else you'd rather argue with, no one else you'd rather have irritating you, no one else you'd rather share your hopes, dreams, fantasies, and fears with.
That's love.
2007-08-13 21:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it has to be real, bc i dunno what else to call what i feel for my bf and we've been going out for a long time :-)
i cared for him a lot, i love being with him, I don't want to be with any other guy even if that guy is the sexiest man alive lol... umm i think about him, i love making cute stuff for him (such as lil love notes), i tell him i love him. Being in love is nice, but sometimes there's drama.... so if there's no love, the relationsip would not survive. because sometimes life will put obstacles to ur love life, i guess to see how much a couple love each other.
2007-08-13 21:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Delilah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can b both, real love is when u both of ya really love each other and can maintain a serious relationship for the rest of their lives...
i also say movie bcuz sometimes when ur really in love, u cant stop thinking bout the person u like and u imagine things with her in a movie situation...
2007-08-13 21:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just found out I love someone. All I can think about is wanting to be there for him and to take care of him. I've never experienced any thing like this in my life.
2007-08-13 21:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by animechdega 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be either or. Depends on the people and the circumstances. Some people can turn real love into a real nightmare.
2007-08-13 21:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real, but not as special as you think.
Every had the first french kiss but never heard the ochestra in the background, but instead a slurping sound of your mouths glancing of each other?
Pretty much like that.
2007-08-13 21:24:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋