So, theres this girl I see at the gym, we are both interested in each other but I'm too much of a idiot to make a move.
Today I gathered up all my courage and tried to talk to her. But when the moment of truth came, i don't know what happened.
All of the sudden I thought, I rather not talk to her and regret it than talk to this girl. So I walk right by her with out even looking.
When I got home, I was soo mad, I started hitting my self in the head and head butted the walls until I got dizzy.
Now I think she has lost interest in me. And I only have one more chance to talk to her this thursday, before school starts. Because I'll be doing sports after school all year. And not be able to see her.
Should I go for it? or just drop it? Sorry my story was so long. Thanks.
2007-08-13 13:35:43 · 9 answers · asked by hotsauce_ross7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take the bull by the horns and ask her out. It seems that you like her enough that if you do not you will always wonder what might have happened if you did. Hey, you've got at least a 50/50 chance, you'll never get more in life than that. Go for it!♥
2007-08-13 13:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Whats the worst that could happen? If she turns you down you wont see her again because of the whole sports thing. But just tell her how you feel. O and headbutting the wall isnt too smart. You dont want brain damage and never be able to talk to her.
2007-08-13 20:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be involved in sports all year round and won't be able to see this girl ,why do you want to let her know of your interest?Hypothetically, if she returns your feelings, what happens next--do you just tell her I like you but wait until next year before I can take you out or see you?You see how absurd that will sound.My suggestion is to talk to this girl only if you are sure you can engage in a real romance with her and your obligations will allow you to spend time in the romance.If not, please don't make a fool of yourself and don't tie her down.choose wisely.
2007-08-13 20:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you want this girl! and if you think she likes you then go for it, theres no such thing as being too much of an idiot when making a move! some guys ask me out cool as a cucumber infront of their mates but i say no =] i actually think its sweet when a guy asks me out and feels abit orkward and if she likes you she isnt going to say no! Good luck =] x
2007-08-13 20:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Parrtty =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't long, and quit being a scaredy cat and grow some balls and talk to her....last chance, make it happen, the worse that can happen is that she's not interested...big deal...school's about to start anyway. good luck
2007-08-13 20:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by TheBeautifulMess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gosh man, go for it. At least you will have tried no matter what happens! And um, don't bang your head into the walls. It won't help at all. =)
2007-08-13 20:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by JoGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it- the worst thing that can happen is she says no. And stop hurting yourself- no girl is worth that.
2007-08-13 20:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you won't know till you try. Just ask her. She won't bite you. Start a conversation about dumb bells etc. Good luck
2007-08-13 20:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
she prolly only seems like she lost interest because she thought u did and didnt want to seem desperate
2007-08-13 20:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by coreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋