am I too young for him ?

Question

there are two guys at my work that asked me out and one is 17 and one is 18. I'm 15, but in a week I turn 16. I really like the guy who is 18 and he is tonnns nicer, but do you think I am too young? My parents said no to a date with him, I need other opinions. also- I am a good kid with all a's and NEVER get into trouble but my dad just won't let me go out with any guy.

I know people are suggesting my dad really cares, but it isn't that. and I've offered that he comes over, the the 18-yr old guy is going away to the air force in a week and it was just a date. nothing was really going to happen, and I might not see him ever again I wanted to say bye....

Answer 1

That's not very young. You're fine. However, both of you are too young to be in any serious relationship.

Answer 2

In most states, he's and adult and you are a child. That could be a nasty legal problem, especially for him. It would be better for both of you to go along with your parent's wishes until you can move out and be on your own or at least until you turn 18. It sounds like your parents have raised you to be a fine young lady. There's even a good chance that they love you, and want the best for you. A few years difference in age is a BIG difference when you are a teen.

Answer 3

Only you can decide which guy is for you. However, I did not allow my daughter to date until she was 16. I did let her go out with a group of friends or on a double date when she was 15. Perhaps, if you asked if you could invite him over for dinner and let your parents meet him or offer to go out with a group instead of on a "date" you parents might be okay with it. Remember, no matter how old you get, you will still be their "little girl" and they are probably having a hard time dealing with how quickly you are growing up. It can be a scary time for us parents too.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 4

You are not too young for the 18 only, but also for the 17 year old guy...I understand your parents concern and that means you have a good parents.Maybe now you don't understand well why do this, but one day you will.I think you could suggest your parents if you could go out with him but with other friends that your parents trust.Or maybe invite him to come to your house so your parents can see him...good luck!

Answer 5

In a week, you won't be too young so wait until then. In most states it is illegal for an 18 year old to have a relationship with a 15 year old. Please remember though that any older boy has that many years to have been dating, practicing the right things to say, building his game up. Many, many young girls get hustled into sleeping with older jerks that "seemed sooo nice." Tell him you'll be his girlfriend and he can buy you dinners and movies but that your religion won't allow you to have sex before marriage...see what happens. After he blows you off (sorry) find a boy your own age (who makes straight A's also) and tell your dad to lighten up.

Answer 6

I don't think you are too young, but it is your parent's opinion that counts. They just want to protect you from the world's crap, I promise. Be thankful that they love you and want to keep you from harm - there are a lot a parents that just don't care, sad as it is.

Ask if you can have him over for dinner or something. Once they get to know him, they will ease up a little on their fears, if he is a decent guy. That should break the ice enough for you to be able to start going out with him. Good luck, and please be patient with you parents. There will NEVER be a guy that is good enough for their daughter, and that is a wonderful thing.

Answer 7

grl thre is nvr a too yung or too old. wen u rlly luv n cre 4 sum1 then age becomes nothin mre than jst a number. my grandparents wre 20 sumthin yrs apart n they've been married 4 a long time. It all depends on how u wnt 2 look @ urself. Do u feel that ure too young? As 4 ur dad I had 2 go through that 2 mayb hes worried bout losin his little grl n isn't ready 4 u 2 grow up yet but this is life he needs 2 get used 2 it soon cuz ure gettin older. Dnt wori bout it gurlie do wat mkes u happy but always b careful n dnt rush 2 grow up enjoy ur life n hve fun.

Answer 8

Keep in mind, you are daddy's little girl, he will always be protective of you, sometimes too much so. Now being a guy myself, and a usually termed a really nice guy at that. I can tell you from personal experience that even the nice guys, at that age are usually only thinking about one thing. I know I was.

You are 15, you are young and if either of these guys REALLY likes you the will wait till your dad sees they are more interested in you than sex, you should make them wait too.

Answer 9

Something you will learn later in life is that parents really do know what is going on at least 80 percent of the time. If they have met the older boy and suggest thtat you hang with the younger one I would listen to that.
My opinion ios to go with the younger guy as well. The older guy is going to experience older girls and that is just not a fight that you can win. At least not win and hang on to your self respect and dignity.

Answer 10

first ask him on a date but it doesn't mean u guys r dating then see if he's really nice or a jerk then u will see if hes the right guy for u! it work for me hunnie so try it and u can date anyone u like babe no one can judge u .

Answer 11

Ask your Mom or older sister. As a Dad I would say , "Yes, you are to young to be alone with these guys without certain rules and conditions."