Like when I'm messing around with a girl, sumtimes I have to get her to play with it before It will actually get it hard...Why can't I just get hard and not ask her to play with it?
2007-08-13 11:22:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cause you're just not that in to her!
2007-08-13 11:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Erections are maintained by a combination of elevated blood pressure to the organ in question which is then held hard by a series of valves at the base. The valves stay in place (and thus the erection is maintained) by pressure from the bladder. Therefore, the first thing to do if you have having a problem is to drink a pint of water (note WATER, NOT beer). This will fill your bladder and make the erection much easier to maintain.
2007-08-13 11:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of things that make it tough to get an erection, and you should see your doctor for a check up.
Diabetes, high-blood pressure, and the medications for them often interfere with sexual activity.
If you are diabetic, or have high-blood pressure, discuss your medication with your doctor and tell him about the problem. If you are not already being treated for diabetes or hypertension, have your doctor check for both.
In addition, there are times when a guy is just too tired or too drunk to perform well. It happens to everybody from time to time.
Doc
2007-08-13 11:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay . Sometimes even women need kissing, gentle touching and kissing in those sensual areas. The more stimulation the more the lubrication and the more intense the eventual penetration. The trick is to enjoy it all and don't be concerned about your penis. Focus more on her and hot she can get before she starts your genitalia stimulation.
2007-08-13 11:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..first of all..its not just your problem.. You work as a couple to get the best results. And so, what if it takes alittle handling to get you going.. You can still get going..
Having someone help with getting you started isnt a difficult thing.. some women need to be started up as well.. patience..
2007-08-13 11:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's body works differently, we all need different types of stimulation to get going. For every **** man, there's an *** man! So you're a guy who requires some physical stimulation to get a hard-on. Most women, myself included, would be delighted to be with a guy who requires a lot of physical attention, it means we get to make you our plaything. Enjoy the benefits, and have fun!
2007-08-13 11:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Terri N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Could be some health problem
2. You might not be very attracted to her
3. Maybe your too stress or nervous try to get relaxed and free of doubts and problems.
4. Maybe watch a few porn videos prior to engaging in sexual activity.
2007-08-13 11:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Spiritual_Soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well bro you need some visual stimulation you need to put your mind to work to get arouse but don t worry if that's fails you could always use the next best thing your tongue or you could just go see your doc.
2007-08-13 11:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by method 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally normal! Is a girl wet the instant you start talking about sex? No! You have to rev her up, so to speak. :-) The same goes for guys. One of the most important parts of a great orgasm is FOREPLAY, so don't skimp on it!
2007-08-13 11:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its either a pyschological thing, or physcial thing. It happens from time to time. If it continues to be a problem, it could be an indicator of a serious underlying condition.
2007-08-13 11:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Gallery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 - you drink too much? 2- you play with yourself so much the poor little thing has gotten used to" Mr. Palmer". and/or3- if you have to ask, you're probably a bum jump anyway!
2007-08-13 11:32:44 · answer #11 · answered by Leigh A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋