Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I was really close to his family; especially his 3 sisters. One of his sisters is getting married this Saturday and my cousin who was supposed to go with me backed out of it. Anyway, my ex is one of the groomsmen and I really want to go to the wedding since I RSVPd already. My cousins said to take my new boyfriend but I don't think that would be appropriate. What do you think? Should I just go by myself?
2007-08-13 11:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by islandgrl_t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Since your original connection to the girl was through your ex, I say you shouldn't go unless you and your ex are on really friendly terms. You especially shouldn't bring your new boyfriend. You don't want to possibly cause any problems on someone else's wedding day.
2007-08-13 11:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would say No. The sister maybe still likes you but i don't think she would appreciate that you bring the one that now replaces her lovely brother, besides the fact that you ended things in a friendly terms I don't think is appropriated, plus if I was your boyfriend i would definitely would feel "awkward". Go solo or invite a girlfriend and enjoy the weeding. Good luck.
2007-08-13 11:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Kent-B-True 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either go by myself or take one of my FEMALE friends. It's tacky and rude to bring an new boyfriend to your ex's sister's wedding. I assume you two were together for awhile if you are so close to his sisters. If you are still unsure if you should even go, call up the bride and ask her how she feels about it, it is her day. Good luck!
2007-08-13 12:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by UhOH! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your invitation said "T W and guest" then yes, you may bring anyone you choose. If it was simply addressed to you only, you may not bring a guest.
That said, if you were invited BEFORE the break up, it is safe to consider yourself uninvited now.
If you go anyway, make sure you aren't dragging along the new boyfriend just to show him off. It will be quite obvious, make you look desperate and probably scare away the new bf.
2007-08-13 11:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is best to go by yourself. I think it would be wrong to take your boyfriend to ex*-boy friends sisters wedding and his family might not feel to comfortable. I think your first feeling was right that it wouldn't be appropriate. Yes go by yourself and be friendly to your ex.
2007-08-13 11:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not suggest taking your new boyfriend. Just go by yourself. This break-up is still something sudden, and it would not be appropriate to bring a new boyfriend. It would only cause conflict. Your ex's sister wants you to be there for her and this is a happy moment. Bringing him would only cause conflict.
2007-08-13 11:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
BEST WISHES!!! The best thing to do is call your friend/ex's sister. She values you as a person and a friend. Come on....she invited you to her wedding. If it were me, I would go with one of my guy friends...I know you have a few.
By the way....Go girl! (NEW boyfriend after a month)
2007-08-13 11:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by mocha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you were invited and it said "your name..and guest" then it really doesn't matter who you bring. its not inappropriate to bring him it just might be a little awkward...for the both of you... only being broken up a month is kind of a short time..if might not look good for you either for him to see you with a new guy so soon after you guys split
2007-08-13 22:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though you may bring anyone you choose I agree that you may want to go to this one solo. It will be uncomfortable enough seeing your ex, I think it would be worse if you bring your new beau!
Good luck!
2007-08-13 15:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go alone. You dont want any problems between u and your ex and your new boyfriend. Good Luck and god bless
2007-08-13 11:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋