I'm 30 and divorced. This past weekend I was shopping with my kids and I met a girl at the mall. We started talking and over the course of the conversation she mentioned that she just turned 18. She gave me her phone number. She's very attractive and pretty. I know we could never be a real couple but would it be wrong for me to pursue a sexual relationship with her?
2007-08-13 11:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's legal so its OK
2007-08-13 11:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be wrong. While she is legal, she is still very capable of falling into the obsessive love pattern that will ultimately just be one big hassle for you. She isn't old enough to handle a fling, even though she might try to convince you of that. Furthermore you are thirty, what are you doing meeting a girl at the mall? You have your kids only a certain amount of time each month, worry about them and not a young piece of *&^.
2007-08-13 18:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm as a girl I think you should keep away from her. Everything you do in life it will came back to you and bite you on your *** sooner or later. You mention you had kids well lets hope you have a daughter would you want some perverted(not saying you are but in my opinion you would be if your just looking for sex with her) 30 year old divorced men with kids hitting on your barely 18 year old naive daughter?????
2007-08-13 18:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Spiritual_Soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats still kinda sick.. ur 30 dude.. u have kids.. she's still basically practically a kid.. bad example for u kids, and just wrong.. but u gotta ask urself what would an 18 yr old want with a 30 year old.. shes probably after ur money.. i don't know a single 18 yr old girl that would geniunely want to date a 30 year old..
2007-08-13 18:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be kind of odd for your kids to know that their dad is dating someone close to their age but it really depends on how you feel and your happiness is what matters most to them. well im 16 and i've been with a 30 yr old guy before though people think it's too odd and it kind of is but i dont care( well i care but i try not to let what people say influence me too much) and your both of legal age so it's fine. i hoped this helped good luck!!!! :)
2007-08-13 18:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i think its sort of sick and wierd... but its legal and if this girl is 18 than she should be intelligent enough to make her own decisions. If that is what she wants and that is what you want then i guess go for it.
2007-08-13 18:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. you got a bunch of guys saying ...go for it!! I think it depends on how mature she is. I was 19 when I met my husband and he was 36.. but I have always been mature for my age... plus he's really hot!!!
2007-08-13 18:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by ******* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats freaking disgusting.
you mentioned you have kids, so are you married?
thats wrong.
2007-08-13 18:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by fif_theendisnear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong, go for it
2007-08-13 18:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by gsmith1236@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2007-08-13 18:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by hunky34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋