Christians...Is it a sin...??(sex)?

Question

I always wondered..I Know sex before marriage is sin..But what if you are married but behind doors with your wife/husband try different possitions..And like to please each other in ways that are out of the ordinary..Like to try different positions..69..& whatever else....Is it a sin..I mean your married thru church and a strong believer..I dont understand..

Answer 1

Anything you want to try with your spouse is OK. Just don't hurt him/her.

Answer 2

The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Scripture never says what a husband and a wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a). This verse perhaps lays down the principle for sexual relations in marriage. Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something they are uncomfortable with or think is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (i.e., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.) - then the Bible doesn’t give any reason why they cannot give it a try.

There are a few things that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping” or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. Other than these two items, there is nothing that Scripture specifically forbids a husband and wife to do with each other – as long as it is by mutual consent.

Recommended Resource: The Act of Marriage by Tim and Beverly LaHaye.

Answer 3

The Holy Bible is not precisely clear in regard to the form of sexual activity to be performed. I do not not believe that different sexual positions are a sin; however, the bible often talks about seed. While I personally believe this has nothing to do with sex many who interpret the bible believe it does. In these passages the Bible states it is not wise to cast your seed upon the thorn, the rock, or the weeds and so on. As a strong believer I am sure you have heard these points of view before and are perhaps more brushed up on your Bible then I am.

I have a very simple view of The Holy Bible. The holy bible was written at least 2000 years ago. Assuming that the original message was not lost when the bible was translated from priest to priest and from language to language there is still the fact that it is 2000 years old. Perhaps this is a naive point of view, but if your going to deliver of a message of divine proportions to millions of people wouldn't the message be for those people?

Consider this, the bible; especially the old testament has over 20 scriptures asking for various types of people to be burned at the stake. These people were called magicians, mediums, sorcerers, and many similar things. The fact of the matter is all of these people were con artists. I believe these scriptures were meant to explain to the followers of Jesus that con-artists should be punished for robbing innocent people and that it was a terrible lifestyle. Considering the scriptures this way makes sense. The people who lived in the days of Jesus lacked college education, birth control, health care, and many other things that modern society now has. Because of this they were desperate for answers and seeked the divine because it was all they really had.

Hails,
Silence

Answer 4

There are a Lot of people that misinterpret the Bible and tend to be more religious than actually following the word of God. They turn everything in religion saying that women can't ware pants and make-up and such and such. But the truth is that God cares about the heart and that you follow his word for what is the point of you not waring pants and make-up if you live a life full of sin?

God created sex for marriage and wants use to be loyal to one another (in a marriage), love each other and work as one.
There for what you do in your marriage other than respecting each other and not hurting each other (by cheating, sin and so on) don't effect your salvation. As long as things are between you and your spouse you guys are doing nothing wrong because you are his and He is yours (or vice and bursa).

So live your marrage and have fun and enjoy it and if some one else thinks all of that stuff is wrong just respect what they believe and let them run their marrage the way the whant to.

God Bless

Answer 5

This is not going to be based off of scripture but on my personal beliefs.

Sex with your spouse is okay, in what ever way that you chose as long as you are not being perverted. Bringing in another person, animal, and the like.

Sex was designed to fullfil a need that almost all people have, verry few donot have the urge to lust after the flesh, so God gave marriage as a way to allow people to fullfil that desire.

When God created the earth and filled it he siad it is good after everything he created except man in which he said it is not good for man to be alone so let us ccreate for him a help meet. so NO trying new things is not a sin.

Answer 6

I would think that as long as you and your spouse are having sex together, only with each other, then it doesn't matter how you do the do. I will say that I think porn would be a sin because you are getting aroused by looking at other people. I would consider that to be emotional infidelity. When you bring other people into your bedroom, well that's when there's a problem.

Answer 7

I wouldn't believe that DIFFERENT SEXUAL postions would be a sin, NO! I heard Pat Robertson say," The Bible says you must keep the bed Holy," he meaning, not to do anal, or oral sex with eachother. IT IS NOT proper to talk about whatEVER you and your husband do in secret, with OTHER married families. I STRONGLY believe that if you DO THAT, that you are planting seeds of adultery.
1 Corinthians 6:9

MY guide for ALL things is Galatians 5:19- about 23, wanting to please God in ALL things.

Answer 8

its not a sin no matter what any one says how boring would life be if we only used one or two positions. I say no holds barred try it all you 'll like it and if you dont your butt is probably sore, guys be gentle the first time and i have never heard of emotional infadelity it amazing we have a new sin not mentioned in the bible

Answer 9

In my state it's apparently a crime to try anything other than the missionary position, but I personally don't have a problem with it. What two consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom should be their business and no one else's.

Answer 10

Hay, im a christian and that i spank the plank as lots because of the fact the subsequent guy I dont think of theres something incorrect with it, in reality physiologically its good fr you, liberating endorphins and all that jazz, putting you in a good temper and subsequently extra in all probability to do good issues, which as a christian, is a strong result. Hows that for good judgment?

Answer 11

The Bible says enjoy frequent sex with your spouse. You can use whatever specific positions and activities you want, and Song of Solomon does speak of the joy of oral sex. Do what you want if you're married to the person.