My boyfriend I have been together for 2 1/2 years now. We live together and we act and do everything like a married couple. I'm starting to notice our sexual activity is getting less as the months go by. So I'm wondering, Is our romance dead or is sex just not a factor in our relationship anymore? I mean he is also working alot more and is tired more often (and no, he's not cheating) Any idea or tips and what we can do spice up our sex life? Or is this just normal?
2007-08-13 07:16:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it is normal for sex in a relationship to slow down it is both of your jobs to bring the sex back to a level that both of you can handle . work can be the cause of the sex slowing down and if it is then when ever time is open it will be a great time for sex even if it is only 30min. remeber theres nothing wrong with just laying on the bed and talking about the long day that you had.
2007-08-13 10:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Change things up... Try new positions, etc. Maybe wear some lingerie or something to spice things up.
Or just understand that he's really busy right now and that things might pick back up soon. Just be there for him until then. But make sure that he knows how you're feeling.
2007-08-13 14:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Initiate sex more.
2007-08-13 14:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, get off computer and get naked, guys love it when the girl makes the first move, oh and i like it when my wife wakes me up playin tug of war.
2007-08-13 14:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
try spicing things up...good luck
2007-08-13 14:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking is the best way. communication never killed anyone. and if you still have trouble, call me! jk.
2007-08-13 14:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋