It was kinda a last minute wedding, but it would have still been nice to get an invite. Should I just not be stubborn & go or send a congrats card & that it?
2007-08-13 06:59:01 · 13 answers · asked by luv2bhapi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
that would be awkward if you showed up, you were not invited and you know your other cousin was. i would not go, send a card later.
2007-08-13 07:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Christina V 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't go if you weren't invited. Just send a card and a personal note of good wishes. If it is a last minute wedding, there is probably a very limited guest list. Be nice. It was probably very difficult for them to choose.
2007-08-13 14:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Julie H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you weren't invited, I don't think you should go. Perhaps they didn't invite you for financial reasons, or seating was an issue, or any of a dozen other possible reasons. If you are close to them personally, maybe they accidentally forgot to send out an invite, or perhaps it was lost in the mail. If you're close to them and would like to attend, call them up, and calmly and gently ask them about it. Whether they want you there or not, for whatever reason, you should still congratulate them and be supportive. Maybe that will bring you and your cousin closer.
2007-08-13 14:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by amandawill 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever you want. Don't be petty just because you didn't get an invite. Are you even close to this cousin who is getting married? If you aren't, then why are you pissed you didn't get one? If you are, I can understand your being miffed, but even then that is no reason to be petty.
Go if you have the day free (and your cousin has an invite titled "and guest"), don't go if you have other plans. Send a card.
2007-08-13 14:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A lot of people take uninvited guests to weddings. Unless it's one of those strict down to the last people invited wedding RSVP thing!
2007-08-17 11:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Keep in mind that they may have to pay a caterer for your food or a wedding planner for the additional headcount. If they are not financially apt to cover those costs, you could be doing more harm than good.
2007-08-13 14:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why don't you talk to your other cousen. don't ask him\her about not inviting you to their wedding, just bring up the subject, like:"oh!,so I here your getting married,well congradulations!" or something! if she\he dose not invite you that day then I would not bother going!
2007-08-13 14:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by <3!love life!<3 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go as a guest with the cousin that wants you to come.
2007-08-13 14:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by veesmom 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't go if I wasn't invited,last minute thing or not!
2007-08-13 14:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't invited, don't go.
Send them a card.
2007-08-13 14:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋