A Womanly Survey?

Question

Question for Women only: How many lovers have you had after you got married and in how many years?


PS: This question is under religion and morality because married religious muslim women (because they get disciplined a lot with a leather belt by their husbands per the Quoran and the Muslim Shariah law) and baptist women (cheating is an art not a crime) cheat a lot more than anyone.

Answer 1

I know you're purposely trying to be offensive by this question, and if that is what you want, I hope you get a lot of negative answers. However, if you really are in earnest with your question (as well as your somewhat dubious statistics about women who cheat), I'll just say I have never, and will never cheat on my husband, because he is a wonderful man who makes me have to look no further for everything I want and need.

Answer 2

I have a totally different situation.

Before we were married, I told the man who is now my husband that he doesn't own me, and that I choose who I'll share my body with, not anyone else. I also told him that if he ever hit me, I'd leave and he'd never see me again.

At the time, I had 4 other lovers, but the more time I spent with him, the less I wanted the others. We moved in together 3 weeks after we met, and lived together for 2 1/2 years before we got married.

During those 2 1/2 years, we shared or had on the side another 5 or 6 lovers, but in the 30 years we've been married, we've only had another 10 (4 for me, 3 for him, and 3 shared), the most recent being about 3 years ago.

I find it interesting that your initial question asks about lovers, but the PS uses the word "cheating". My husband and I do not cheat. We negotiate the all details of our relationship, including which lovers we will have or not.

I am a polyamorous bisexual Wiccan Priestess in California.

Answer 3

I'm not married yet, but my fiance and I have been together and have been faithful to one another for 12 years. I cannot imagine ever being unfaithful to him, nor would I want to be.

I'm Catholic; he's agnostic.

And by the way, you'd best be careful where you point those fingers. I am neither Baptist nor Muslim, but I am highly offended on their behalf. Unless you can provide concrete evidence to the contrary, I think it's fair to say that Baptist and Muslim women are no more or less likely to cheat than any of the rest of us.

Answer 4

I cheated once.
It was a very bad time in our marriage. Although he was cheating too, I was horribly ashamed, and in the end, I think it hurt me more than anyone else.
He's dead now.
Since he's been gone, I've had two lovers...almost got remarried once, actually.
I'll tell you this, though...I would not want a husband or a lover whose trust I had to enforce. Any man I could lose that easily was not worth the having in the first place.
How does that song put it?
"It's gonna take a superman to sweep me off my feet"

EDIT:
I thought you wanted us to tell the TRUTH, here!
OH, and btw, I am a Christian.
(Did you know that sometimes Christians do things they shouldn't? Did you know that conviction hurts? Alot? Trust me, you can't punish my body with a belt nearly as painfully as God can punish my spirit.)
Did you know that at least half of these women are probably fibbing to you?)
(Did you know that a man who thinks he has to hurt a woman in order to keep her faithful has an incredibly low self esteem? Those muslim guys with their Sharia law must be really lousy lovers, if they can't keep their women at home without beating them!)

Answer 5

i have never cheated or betrayed anyone;
Because that is my personal code of honor and the way that I was raised. I will just walk away;
It is the high way or no way .
That is my way;
I cant help what has been done to me but I can choose my response. I refuse to lower my standards and cheapen my self because of what some one eles done to me and our relationship;
It is their lost. A true and good love is not often easy to come by and some day they will deeply regret their choices.
I believe when you have sex with someone your intermingle your soul. I dont want my soul scattered.
God bless and have a beautiful life!
A cheating mate reaps what they sow.
I am only accountable to God;myself and mate.
Your must had been burned bad;
Just like not all men cheat not all women cheat either.

Answer 6

Are you trying to say Muslim women or Baptist women cheat more.? Or that they both cheat more than others? No, cheating is not a crime in the U.S. We have evolved beyond that. We believe if two people be faithful to each other it should be because they love one another and WANT to be faithful. You cannot legislate love.

Answer 7

None...never cheated.

However, I have had 2 husbands that cheated on me.

My third is as faithful as the day is long. I finally got a good man after years of struggling.

~Atheist~

Answer 8

After I got married? One - my husband. He's been my only partner for the past 14 years, ever since we started dating in 1993.

Answer 9

Been married 2 and half years. Never cheated, do not want to. It's a commandment.
Plus cheating on your spouse is immature. & tacky.

Answer 10

I am faithful to my husband and we have been married for 6 years.
I have never cheated on him and never will.I believe that cheating causes a lot of pain and destroy marriages...
If i want to see other guys i 'll just get a divorce.

P.s:I'm not religious.