But dont you think that girls can just give much of a heart ache only because of your looks,and character?

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I am just too loving not tha i am blowing my own horn and i am also loving an open guy and its true i love my self too much and i cant help falling for people who are jsut going to hurt me is that not what love is about.I am not just trying or being full of my self just thought yall could help a brother out

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O yea I'll help you out brother. Frist off your not really as loving as you think you are, it isn't some disney bs that just means, wow I've got a big heart, thats just some pop culture bs they like to shovel down our throats so that we can still believe in soul mates, and happy-ever after. Fact remains if you truly showing a person some love you simply accepting feelings for them. What that means and what you do with it is the product of that relationship. And bro if your not able to keep them around your doing some majorly wrong with who you love or how you love them. So as you can see it isn't how much love you got, its how you use it, maybe try and be smarter about it? I mean even a cat, dog or even a rat can love it takes that thing inbetween your ears to determine, 1 if your good for it and 2 if its good for you. So in the end when we fail at the game of love, we've only got ourselves to blame, shoot join the club..... not as easy as they made it out to be.... oooo yea also an old chinese proverb you might want to take to heart so you don't.... make the mistake again? Friends can make great lovers, but lovers rarly make even decent friends. So in other words romance means nothing to a loving relationship, althou it is nice once in a while.