Trying to avoid drama..but?

Question

My ex-boyfriend and I hung out a while back strictly as friends. Well, his current g/f recently found out and is of course extremely angry and has been sending me heated messages. I responded back and let her know that he and I are just friends and that aside from the one time we barely speak much less see each other. She responds back with another angry message so now I am at a loss. I have to the town where she lives next weekend for a friend's birthday and this happens to be a mutual friend we share...thus, she will be there. I don't want any drama, but this girl will not calm down. I don't know how else to explain to her that I do not want to get back with my ex and that we are just friends...help!

Answer 1

It isn't your battle, its his don't do this to yourself. For one if he was in the right he would say exactly what is needed to be said to her to make this right. Second it isn't your fight, all you can to is make her more upset. Three it usually a good idea when dealing with insecure people to be the big person and just do what she says, or just leave him alone. Its his fault that your both dealing with her, so it isn't your place to tell him and her how to deal with you, understand? Or rather it isn't your place to say were your at with him. Its up to him to take care of that, if not OF COURSE YOUR AT A LOST YOU CAN'T SAY ANTHING!!! So in other words your ex-boyfriends / recent friend is failing at his relationship and your being pulled along with it...... maybe remind you why you stop being "serious" with him in the frist place?