My wife is most probably divorcing me, she loves me but WILL do it (it's difficult to explain why, she kind of wants me to act in a way that goes against my beliefs). We've been separated for 2 years and I feel very lonely often. Cause of work I move often, and don't have many female friends my age. But the question is, if divorce happens, would it be so wrong to find a female friend? Not to have either sex or even a relationship, just to go out.
(please don't answer to try and work it out, cause I am trying, the question is if it happens, thanks).
2007-08-13 04:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, I know the head of the question says DATING, but I don't know if finding someone just to share moments like going to movies and stuff can be called dating.
2007-08-13 04:05:09 · update #1
Well, for those who are asking, she is kind of against my religion, she used to have the same beliefs, now she says if I don't quit it's over.
2007-08-13 04:29:15 · update #2
I think companionship is the exact word. Why not male companionship? Well, male friends are different, and I don't feel incomplete in that sense. Also, for a female friend you can invite dinner, buy the tickets, and feel you're kind of useful.
2007-08-13 04:32:18 · update #3
well you have to get own with your life because if you dont she is going to think she can make you feel bad and you can have a life by yourself and find you a lady friend and go out and have yourself a good time and about a year later you can let her know that you are happy and you dont need her in your life to make you happy.... i will be your lady friend online to make you happy if you want to email me mndcade@yahoo.com
2007-08-13 04:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by amanda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're tiptoeing around what she wants you to do that is against your beliefs but I suppose that's your business. The thing is it's hard to answer because I suspect your question has something to do with these mysterious 'beliefs'.
Everyone is going to answer based on their own beliefs and tell you it's fine but Is having a female friend somehow against these 'beliefs'?
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2007-08-13 04:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve companionship even if you are divorced. The wife would get really jealous, but if you don't see yourself ever getting back together, I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-08-13 04:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you want companionship and there's nothing at all wrong with that. Good luck.
2007-08-13 04:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife devorces you, there's nothing to stop you from finding someone else, you just have to find a way to get mentally unmarried.
2007-08-13 04:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mark G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your beliefs seem to be very strict if your asking if its ok to date/hangout after your divorce... kinda curious what acts your wife want you to do that are against your beliefs..hmmm?
2007-08-13 04:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by antoinio i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really a dumb question. If she divorces you, why would it be wrong for you to have friends, date, or even screw other women??
2007-08-13 04:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on life is full of joy
2007-08-13 04:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tithi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it be wrong? your free again!
2007-08-13 04:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋