2007-08-13 04:00:50 · 17 answers · asked by DomNix 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be forceful, go slowly but make sure she knows your serious........courting is like the best thing ever......you sound like a great guy
2007-08-13 04:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by volllballgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy my self. All you have to do is relax around her, let her get to know you and she might relax somewhat. Its hard I know because I am very shy and my boyfriend asked the same question when we were together. For me I had to feel comfortable around other people before I could really talk to anyone. When you take her somewhere where there are other people around do not leave her alone and if its just the two of you talk about something she is into. Give her time. Good luck
2007-08-13 04:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a gentle nature and a wacky sense of humour is the way to court the shy ones.
2007-08-13 04:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since opposites attracts, be confident. Compliment her in a subtle way. Shy people are usually a bit insecure so let her know that you think she's pretty or smart. Be funny.
2007-08-13 04:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and be encouraging. With shy girls you can't be that kind of guy that makes fun of her to get her attention. You have to be really sweet and compliment her a lot. Find out what her interests are and who her friends are... then get involved with both so that she sees you and can get confortable around you.
2007-08-13 04:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy girls are still Girls.
but.. and.. to court a girl you need TWO elements.,.. together.
attraction and comfort. if any of those is missing, it's not gonna happen (unless she just wants to get laid on a one night stand thing).
shy girls need more comfort than others, build good rapport with her (you don't have to lie about that).
good rapport will lead you every where if she is "attracted" to you :) remember .. although you need both, but attraction comes first. if she's not attracted to you, building rapport with her and getting her comfort around you will turn you into one of her "GIRLfriends"
good luck :)
2007-08-13 04:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy so I'm the perfect one to ask.....
-Treat her like she's special
-Ask her questions about herself and show that you're genuinely interested in what she has to say (this applies for whenever she talks to you). Don't interrupt her, do maintain eye contact, and DO ask follow-up questions.
-Compliment her
-If you know any of her friends, ask them if you have a chance with her.
-Let the relationship grow as friendship first--don't drop the "I'm interested in you" thing until she's had a chance to know she can trust you. Also, girls don't like to be pursued just as objects; they like to know that you're actually interested in them for who they are and not just a potential girlfriend.
2007-08-13 04:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know this one too, all I know is don't be agressive about it, shy ones will bolt like a deer that just heard a twig snap.
2007-08-13 04:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mark G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she's comfortable with. For example, go for a drive somewhere…Every girl is different ;-)
2007-08-13 04:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take things very slow. Try to be friendly, but don't come on too strong. Gain her trust first. Hope this helps.
2007-08-13 04:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by barngoddesstoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not come on too strong...take it slow...treat her very nicely, but don't be too strong a/b telling her how much you like her, but let her know - hold her hand, put your arm around, kiss her on her cheek - it's all a/b subtlety when it comes to shy chicas
2007-08-13 04:04:57 · answer #11 · answered by VWBeetleBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋