my girlfriend and i fought.. big time.. i tried saying sorry and i love her but she keeps saying words are just not enough.. i want to make it up to her and i want something really nice.. i cant think of anything.. please help me..
2007-08-13 03:41:24 · 19 answers · asked by jnggystrd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice big bouqet of flowers (roses are your best bet) and a big box of chocolate.
2007-08-13 03:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Whenever you quarrel with another party,
- keep calm and don't you dare fight and hit the girl. Suppress your anger as much as possible and talk to her calmly, discussing how to solve the problem. Fights does not help in anyways, it only worsens everything!
- never leave the place with a stomp cause it will be hard getting together again.
Tell your girlfriend that you promise you will keep calm in the future and not resort to violence. Tell her that you hope that she will keep to this rule too, and make sure you do the same. Of course, make her feel that you have realised your mistake, speaking with sincerity.
I am sure no girl will want their man to hit and fight with them. What they want is for you to respect them. And if you respect them, they will respect you too for sure.
2007-08-13 10:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her a note in the mail saying how you want to make it up to her...by dinner at a nice restaurant...
Send her flowers every week if it comes to more than one week....
Please ask her to work with you with whatever you did..but make sure you know that it swings both ways...and she contributed something in the fight too....think of what she did, and mention to her that despite all the stuff going on, you are willing to try to get her back into your arms...and that you will improve, but she needs to communicate better too..
2007-08-13 10:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by lodger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make her dinner or take her out on the town, just have an all around special night to show her how much you appreciate her.
have little touches like food she likes, a special place she likes, wear a color she likes you to wear, the whole nine yards.
then at the end of the night say something meaningful to her, so that the words will be enough with the actions you've taken to show her just how much she really means to you.
best of luck.
2007-08-13 10:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by sofia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest and tell her that u are really sorry..
u need to get her into the mood for forgiving u
e.g. do something sweet for her then say u are sorry
u can't say sorry in the middle of playing your Warcraft 3 and expect her to forgive u :D
what ever u do .. remember that what don't kill u makes u stronger
2007-08-13 10:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by MyOnlineLife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The god thing about fights is it gives you a chance to make up and have a better relationship than before, set up something realley nice get her to go show her you love her in a different way than you have ever before it will work trust me!
2007-08-13 10:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
depending on the relationship there are a couple of options. roses are nice but they die. i know for me i appreciate it more when my boyfriend does things like cook dinner or makes sure i get a break or plans a movie night and then we can talk and get past the arguement.
2007-08-13 10:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by TFB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you? some kind of whipped kissass?
If a sincere apology is not good enough for her ,she is playing you!
Don't be a sucker and get caught up in her game or it will repeat it's self again and again.
2007-08-13 10:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a HUGE bunch of flowers and a HUGE teddy bear, and some chocolates, even if she isn't a goldigger, she'll be overwhelmed and her being mad at you will make her feel guilty, so she won't be
2007-08-13 10:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow some balls and quit kissing her *** if you were gonna wuss out like this you shouldnt have got into the arguement in the first place
2007-08-13 10:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
fill her entire room with A MILLION flowers! colorful! not a million roses.... and maybe a little gift on a bed like jewelry or chocolate!
2007-08-13 10:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋