Ok, first of all I'm only 15 yrs old. A guy that works for my parents was talking to me. His name is Marcus. Marcus and his other two friends, and Marcus, was looking at my butt, and my body; quite a bit often. Even my mom noticed it. Marcus was telling me when he was alone with me that i'm real pretty, when he first saw me, he was like wow, saying to me once I turn 18, I should come and check him out, cause he wants me. I told him that he's too old- he's in his late 40's but he said thats ok, like the age doesn't matter. He tries to make me laugh, tells me what job he does, saying i'll have a lot of money and stuff and good credit. He told me that i have a nice body and that I should watch out for other guys but not him though. Whenever he see's me, he starts talking to me. Is this a guy I should watch out for? Do you think he might try to molest me or try something on me? Please, help me! Cause i'm really concerned.
2007-08-13 03:32:23 · 41 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay away from him and tell your parents.
2007-08-13 03:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by pooh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, be concerned. Tell your parents and make sure you stop talking to him about anything - its fine to say hello and goodbye, but if you're showing an interest in him, he might think he can get lucky. It's called "grooming" - being really nice to you when he's got other motives.
Just don't give him the time of day and he'll get the message.
You really should tell you parents though and make sure you don't end up alone with him.
2007-08-13 03:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by bec 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are 15 he's probably not a child molester. Considering most girls your age have matured enough, he's not interested in a "little girl" body. He's however is a man you need to watch out for. I'm sure you aren't the only young woman he has fatasies for. Stay away from him. Tell your mom you don't feel comfortable being alone with him. Your whole future is ahead of you, don't settle for less than your worth.
2007-08-13 03:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by 17 years young 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
STAY AWAY FROM HIM!!!! I 40 year old man has NO business talking like that to a 15 year old!! He is DEFINITELY potential sex offender material if he isn't already one!! Tell your mom or another adult that you trust about the things that he says to you and stay away from him at all times!!!! Never be alone with him and do not continue talking to him!! TELL A TRUSTED ADULT about this right away!!! Good luck & be safe!!! you did the right thing by asking for advice..and you are right in your thinking!! You know something is not right with him!!!
2007-08-13 03:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a 14 year old daughter and men check her out all the time. When I see them I give them a good ole southern cussin' and dare them to hit me so I can kick their ***. This dude is sick. The only men that should be flirting with you are around your own age. He's trying to get you to trust him. If that don't work, he might try to take advantage. I tell my girls that if a man give you a "uh oh "feeling, then trust yourself and stay away.
2007-08-13 03:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 40's year old talking like that to a 15 years old? At least, he is a thirty old man. Does you mother knows the way he talks to you? What about your father? Please, let an older relative know of this situation. Somebody, because nothing good will come out of this. Be careful, and good luck.
2007-08-13 03:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you do NOT call him when you turn 18, and avoid him. He is what some of us like to call a "creepy old guy." He may try to molest you, but don't worry too much. If he does try anything, be sure to tell your parents. They will know what to do in that instance. But for now, just avoid him and be careful.
Good luck!
-Alex
2007-08-13 03:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Alex S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. He has no business telling a child things like "you have a nice body". That's very inappropriate. And the fact that he doesn’t seem to realize that it’s inappropriate is cause for much concern.
If I were your parents, I'd fire him and then I'd get a restraining order against him.
2007-08-13 03:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definatly watch out for this man! And do not allow yourself to be alone with him! You should talk to your parents and have them intervene because what might seem only a little concerning could very quickly go to far! God bless.
2007-08-13 03:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by irishheart28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is a guy you should watch out for. But seriously...you're being a little over dramatic. No...he's not a freakin child molester. If you don't feel comfortable around him...don't show up when he's around or just avoid him. You'll notice more and more as you become a woman that this is what a lot of guys do. They check you out...they hit on you...yes...you are a little young still, but just don't put yourself in that situtation.
2007-08-13 03:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please stay away from this person, he is trying to seduce you. Tell your parents as soon as possible. They need to know so they can protect you. This man is a sick person for sure. The fact that you are a teenager and he is way older (and should know better) raises flags all over the place. Please don't get suckered in. I'm concerned for you too my dear. I've been in the same sitution many times. Take care and please don't be afraid to tell your parents, they will help you....
2007-08-13 03:46:24 · answer #11 · answered by HotNurse71 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋